Delphinus, this is such a good post! When I say “good,” I’m not talking about the writing or the paragraph composition or the style–I’m saying that God’s beautiful GOODNESS shines through this post!
I think it’s so important that we are compassionate, loyal, loving, fun, and generous friends to all of our relatives and acquaintances who are LGBTQ.
But we need to be careful not to embrace as normal and beautiful the practice of sexual acts outside of a valid marriage between a man and a woman.
If we are truly friends with LGBTQ individuals and actually getting together with them on a regular basis and doing activities and spending quality time together, eventually the topic will come up, and we will have the opportunity to be able to share the truth of Christian/Catholic teaching about sex.
To just say, “It’s all good, I’m fine with it, it’s your life and it’s none of my business what you do behind closed doors” is not loving at all! It’s a failure to warn people that there is a God, that He has spoken about sexual activity, and that defiance and disobedience has consequences.
I would like to see Christians think seriously about whether there is really value in attending PRIDE events as a show of support, and instead, consider seeking out the company of LGBTQ people (or just one person) and being a true, loyal, loving friend to that person(s).
At a PRIDE event, it is not appropriate for Christians to speak up and call out the discrepancy between the practice of homosexual acts and God’s eternal Word and teachings. It would be rude, disruptive, and would definitely fail to accomplish any good at all, and possibly turn people against God and His Church and people.
But as a close friend, who spends quality time doing fun and uplifting activities on a regular basis with our LGBTQ friends and having open, honest, and edifying conversations during those activities, we will eventually have the opportunity to speak in a private setting, in a very loving way, AFTER we have “earned the right to speak” by demonstrating day after day that we truly love our friend. We will also be able to demonstrate through our own continence, the beauty of obeying God’s plan for human sexuality.