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Phemie
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I could donate all the money I want, no priest around here is going to don black vestments for a funeral – they’d balk at violet too.Make a fund in case there are none.
I’m old enough to remember black vestments, a black pall-covered catafalque at anniversary Masses, along with wearing black for a year when you were in mourning and then moving on to subdued colours in the second year. I vividly remember Mom having her winter coat professionally dyed black when my grandfather died and I was only 4 at the time. I also remember vividly how she hated that social convention and how she said she never wanted anyone to do that when she died.
But we rarely see people in mourning clothes any more. I don’t see the family dressed all in black when I do Funeral Vigils at the funeral home, I don’t see it at the Funeral Mass. I don’t often see pallbearers in black, in fact around here I rarely see them ‘dressed up’ at all – at one recent funeral they were all dressed in hockey sweaters. And brides do sometimes dress in black today although the dresses would never be mistaken for mourning clothes.
I honestly don’t know if returning to black vestments (violet is the official colour, black is only allowed in the Latin GIRM ‘where black vestments have traditionally been used’) would have the impact you seem to think it would.