Today when I went to confession, a few minutes before it started a woman when up to our new parish priest and asked him to bless her candle. He asked her why. He said what’s the point, there aren’t any blessed candles in the church. She pleaded with him and he said okay and blessed the candle for her. he then stated that she will just be burning what he has blessed so it is counterproductive.
Firstly I didn’t know that the candles at the church weren’t blessed, I assumed everything was. Secondly is he spot on as she stated the previous priest would always bless them?
It wasn’t a secret conversation as they were right next to me. I am very easily confused though.
Thanks.
(SIGH) Blessed candles are what are called “sacramentals”. According to the Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC), paragraph 1667 introduces sacramentals:
“Holy Mother Church has, moreover, instituted sacramentals. These are sacred signs which bear a resemblance to the sacraments. They signify effects, particularly of a spiritual nature, which are obtained through the intercession of the Church. By them men are disposed to receive the chief effect of the sacraments, and various occasions in life are rendered holy.”
The next few paragraphs of the CCC go into more detail, but for our purposes, blessed candles, blessed medals, etc. are all objects which, having been blessed, confer blessings when they are used properly. (I.E., rosaries become sacramentals when blessed, and are used properly when you use them for praying; they are improperly used when they are worn for decoration.)
In the past, most Catholic homes had blessed candles around. In fact, my parents had this huge crucifix that would open up to let you store two blessed candles, some matches, and holy water. The crucifix would fit into the base and you now had everything needed for a priest to give “Last Rites” (aka “Sacrament of the Sick” – very important to have around when many more people got sick and died at home instead of in hospitals.) Other people like to burn blessed candles before icons or other pictures of saints; and there are “pious traditions” associated with things like “the Three Days of Darkness” (which are not part of doctrine) which state that only blessed candles will burn during this time.
There are a couple of threads on CAF regarding sacramentals and the refusals of certain priests to bless rosaries and medals. The best advice I’ve pulled up from these threads is to meet with the priest privately and get confirmation of what he told her, and find out what objects he does bless. There are some priests who think the whole “blessing sacramentals” like candles, medals, rosaries, etc. thing is superstitious and won’t do it. These priests are acting in contradiction to the CCC and should be reported to the bishop. You should also post a question in the main “Apologetics” forum asking about using unblessed candles at church. If the priest should be blessing the candles before using them and is not, the bishop should be informed.