Thanks for bringing this up. I didn’t know about this. I myself am a EMHC, and at my parish we were told to bless people that come up with the arms crossed. Never had an adult come up. Just kids, so I just tapped their heads with my hand. It’s not really doing anything because I am a lay person. Also we were told to drink reverently the precious blood in the sacristy after everyone had came up for communion. It really disturbs me when the other person say’s “There’s nothing like a glass of wine on Sunday.” After we consume the precious blood we are suppose to swish tap water around in the chalice and consume it, then we dry them and put it in the cabinet.
I believe there needs to be some reform at my parish. I try to do everything as reverently as I can, but the other’s I am not so sure about.
I am currently in the process of applying to seminary, and If I ever get ordained God Willingly, I would bring back the altar rails and have 1 emhc.
I also heard some things today at choir practice, our organist isn’t Catholic, and she said she does not take communion, but one time a member of the choir broke a host and brought it up to her. I don’t know this member, but I do know she is no longer Catholic.