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Out of the blue tonight a long-time friend since highschool has told me that he is interested in exploring religion. He came to me because he has known me to be a serious Catholic for many years. He wants to know where to begin. {How wonderful, been praying for this for years}

There are so many places one could start–prayer, the Bible, attending Mass, etc. I do know my friend pretty well, and I am trying to think about what might be a good starting point. He is educated, but not necessarily scholarly. He has partied more than his share (as have I) in his life… but he knows that there is something more out there. I thought about loaning him a copy of Thomas Merton’s Seven Story Mountain. This is the first book that I read as spiritual reading. I think that the story of a modern man confronting the emptiness of the world and turning to God might captivate him. Does anyone else know of any good convert books that might be good for someone who has grown up basically unchurched? (I think that Augustine’s Confessions might be a little too theological for the novice).

I am also going to talk to him about beginning to pray in a simple way–time in silence asking God to reveal Himself. Also, reading the Gospel of Mark might be a good entry way due to the concise and immediate way it communicates the kerygma. I am also going to write him my own experience of the Catholic faith and conversion.

Incidentally, after some time of ruminating, the movie about 80’s skateboard sensation Christian Hosoi really moved him to talk to me about where to begin [Hosoi’s story is a modern conversion tale about wealth, fame, drugs at early age, then prison, then conversion to Christianity; for example, see: http://www.secretsofsuccess.com/people/hosoi.html ]

Things along this vein would help. Thanks for any suggestions.
 
After reading Merton autobiography and Nouwen’s sabbatical in a monastery, one that particularly spoke to me was** “Spiritual Journeys” by Robert Baram,
which is available at amazon.com for $ .01. These conversion stories (and others) certainly made a difference.
I found that I didn’t need all my questions answered immediately. Some I had to live into the answer.
jblair
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I would consider obtaining for him Father Corapi’s conversion story which I believe is available at Catholicity.

Here it is:

catholicity.com/cds/corapi.html

When I was reverting, books that touched me:

Mother Angelica’s Answers not Promises
Rome Sweet Home
by the Hahns
Divine Mercy in my Soul by St. Faustina
Ann Ball’s *Modern Saints *vol I and II

I really related to conversion stories versus books that were more cerebral. Thomas Merten is a great choice.

Fulton Sheen’s Autobiography is also a great read.
 
“Christ Among Us” by Anthony Wilhelm is a wonderful book. It explains much of the church teachings and respect for ALL God’s people.
 
I’d like to strongly second leonie’s suggestion of Mother Angelica’s Answers not Promises. Mother Angelica is so plain-spoken, and such a breath of fresh air to a Catholic, let alone a potential convert. She may give your friend a very favorable example of a very faithful, holy person who will supply answers, not promises. Later on, you might consider recommending Mother Angelica’s biography by Raymond Arroyo.

I’ve never seen any of Mother Angelica’s EWTN TV shows, but I’m sure they’re just as good, if not better. She would be a wonderful example to anyone contemplating conversion - she makes the faith so livable, and pulls no punches. (And you love her for it. 😃 )

She was the first person I ever heard suggest that we should all aspire and try to be saints.

I hope this was helpful to you. What a wonderful opportunity and answer to your prayers!
 
Maybe he would listen to something. Renewal Ministries, renewalministries.net/choices_tv_archive.php has the stories of Fr Donald Calloway and Fr. Steven Mattson which I would recommend, especially the first.
Yes, the idea of Fr. Donald Calloway’s conversion story “No Turning Back: Confessions of a Catholic Priest” just came to me last night. That would be very helpful, because Fr. Calloway was a partier who came from an unchurched background. The DVD is available at Amazon (actually, not currently available):
amazon.com/No-Turning-Back-Confessions-Catholic/dp/B000KITPW6/ref=sr_1_9/002-1832348-0274420?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183984434&sr=8-9
Though, fortunately for me, I have a copy I can send him.

Thanks for suggestions all, please add some more if you can think of them…
 
My first idea was to get him a copy of the Catechism!
Eventually, yes. But, the CCC is very theological and specific. I am not sure he is there yet. I am just trying to help him reflect on the basic fact of desire for God, conversion, holiness, freedom in Christ, etc. We are just starting a conversation. In time, I hope to share with him the fine points of specific doctrines.
 
Eventually, yes. But, the CCC is very theological and specific. I am not sure he is there yet. I am just trying to help him reflect on the basic fact of desire for God, conversion, holiness, freedom in Christ, etc. We are just starting a conversation. In time, I hope to share with him the fine points of specific doctrines.
I guess it just depends on the type of person…
My husband is an engineer (actually so am I), so logic plays a huge part in our discussions on spirituality.
The catechism is his favorite tool for evangelization at work (where there are other logic hungry engineers)… and he’s sponsored friends into the church using this approach…

Don’t dismiss it too early… 👍

But you know this guy’s personality… so use his interests and gifts in your evangelization tools…
 
“Christ Among Us” by Anthony Wilhelm is a wonderful book. It explains much of the church teachings and respect for ALL God’s people.
Unless it’s been edited, this book contained many theological error, even though it was THE book used in RCIA in the 80’s.
 
Unless it’s been edited, this book contained many theological error, even though it was THE book used in RCIA in the 80’s.
Yup.

The book is, I’m afraid, theological trash.

Get something good – written by a saint. Maybe “Introduction to the Devout Life” by St. Francis de Sales.
 
I guess it just depends on the type of person…
My husband is an engineer (actually so am I), so logic plays a huge part in our discussions on spirituality.
The catechism is his favorite tool for evangelization at work (where there are other logic hungry engineers)… and he’s sponsored friends into the church using this approach…

Don’t dismiss it too early… 👍

But you know this guy’s personality… so use his interests and gifts in your evangelization tools…
I would never dismiss the ole’ triple C (CCC). But, an even more gentler and less intimidating tool for the beginner might be the new quadruple C (CCCC): Compendium to the Catechism of the Catholic Church.
 
ok so he’s a catholic, you’ve known for years and he wants to explore religion.

where to begin?

tis the season for harvesting…invite him to go to mass together on sunday. let the priest know that you have this friend who hasn’t been in church for awhile and you are inviting him to his church and would he pray for him. also, make sure to introduce them after mass. give him a chance to shake his hands. if he comes up with any questions, offer to go up to the priest after mass together to ask the priest. let the priest do the talking.
 
Out of the blue tonight a long-time friend since highschool has told me that he is interested in exploring religion. He came to me because he has known me to be a serious Catholic for many years. He wants to know where to begin. {How wonderful, been praying for this for years}

There are so many places one could start–prayer, the Bible, attending Mass, etc. I do know my friend pretty well, and I am trying to think about what might be a good starting point. He is educated, but not necessarily scholarly. He has partied more than his share (as have I) in his life… but he knows that there is something more out there. I thought about loaning him a copy of Thomas Merton’s Seven Story Mountain. This is the first book that I read as spiritual reading. I think that the story of a modern man confronting the emptiness of the world and turning to God might captivate him. Does anyone else know of any good convert books that might be good for someone who has grown up basically unchurched? (I think that Augustine’s Confessions might be a little too theological for the novice).

I am also going to talk to him about beginning to pray in a simple way–time in silence asking God to reveal Himself. Also, reading the Gospel of Mark might be a good entry way due to the concise and immediate way it communicates the kerygma. I am also going to write him my own experience of the Catholic faith and conversion.

Incidentally, after some time of ruminating, the movie about 80’s skateboard sensation Christian Hosoi really moved him to talk to me about where to begin [Hosoi’s story is a modern conversion tale about wealth, fame, drugs at early age, then prison, then conversion to Christianity; for example, see: http://www.secretsofsuccess.com/people/hosoi.html
]

Things along this vein would help. Thanks for any suggestions.

All these are good.

I have recently become interested in Theology of the Body. Theology of the Body for Beginners might be good at some point. My 25 yo son liked it (he’s recently been more open to learning more about his faith and has time to read since he’s at sea, in the Navy). The DVD’s and audio CD’s are excellent, too.

How old is your friend? Jason Evert is probably in his 30’s and is an apologist. He lived a (I guess I can call it) a ‘partying’ lifestyle as well. He mostly works in the area of chastity (Pure Love Club), but he has books out, too.

Tim Staples was a Marine and a convert; I saw him give a talk in person before I really knew who he was. He is very enthusiastic, and perhaps would give a man’s perspective.

Nineveh’s Crossing ninevehscrossing.com/ has the DVD, Champions of Faith:
Baseball’s biggest stars reveal how their faith guides and sustains their spectacular major league careers. An all star, first class production. You have to see this to believe how good it really is. Lessons for the game of life. Shot in High-Definition. English & Spanish subtitles. An exciting and wonderful celebration of life, sports, and Christian faith.

And, hey, you can always suggest Catholic Answers Forum!!
If he wants to be anonymous, he can ask questions at Catholic Answers Live (EWTN radio), or Open Line (also EWTN radio).

I somewhat envy your helping lead your friend in finding the Faith; best to you both, and may your friendship be deepened as well as your realtionship to Jesus and his Church!

Mimi
 
Yes, the idea of Fr. Donald Calloway’s conversion story “No Turning Back: Confessions of a Catholic Priest” just came to me last night. That would be very helpful, because Fr. Calloway was a partier who came from an unchurched background. The DVD is available at Amazon (actually, not currently available):
amazon.com/No-Turning-Back-Confessions-Catholic/dp/B000KITPW6/ref=sr_1_9/002-1832348-0274420?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1183984434&sr=8-9
Though, fortunately for me, I have a copy I can send him.

Thanks for suggestions all, please add some more if you can think of them…
I have seen this DVD! It is just Fr. Calloway talking – a talking-head kind of filming, but later they show some photos of him in his younger days. He still looks like a 22 yo, IMO! What a story! His mother came into the Church after he moved away, and began praying the rosary for him.
Also available through:
catholicfamilycatalog.com/dvntb1.htm

He was so far into crime, etc., the Japanese kicked him out of their country! He had sort of an instant conversion; he says he received the infused knowledge that the Eucharist was the center of the universe while attending Mass as an observer.

Your friend will have an easy time of picking something that will help him; there is so much great Catholic material out there these days. So different from 25 yrs ago.

Mimi
 
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