Iām not saying you canāt read something contrary to the faith as an adult. Youāre an adult, youāre responsible for what you encounter and how you deal with it. However, as I said later on in the conversation I was reading books with people sleeping with each other outside of marriage by the time I was in fourth grade; not just hinting at it happening either. My parents were the ones who gave me the books. They never asked what was in them and I never knew to tell them that something was wrong. I grew up reading that and a bunch of other things that had stuff that was normalized that the Church teaches against. It took a lot of work later on for me to figure out and accept what the Church was teaching in a lot of stuff because while reading those books and rooting for those characters and everything they wanted to accomplish. I saw nothing wrong with what I was encountering and even went through a time of almost leaving the Church over my perception of them getting in the way of people loving each other no matter who they were, doing ānormal datingā and getting close to each other, hurting people because they didnāt believe in God, etc.
Thereās a time and a place for reading books with a bunch of different content. I was NOT grounded in my faith and didnāt even have anything except for the bare minimum of things taught to me. I had NO guidance for a lot of things in my life because my parents never talked to me about stuff, so instead I got it from books. This was a thread for recommending books for young teens not for people you are presuming are adults. At 12, which I think was the age of the girl, I wouldnāt be giving her books with stuff unless the parents are also willing to know what sheās going to encounter and talk to her. Even then Iād base it on the maturity of the child. I gave that paragraph because I know how damaging it can be when someone encounters that stuff, thinks that not only is it normal but itās romantic and loving, and then has a crisis of faith because suddenly things you didnāt know were a problem are a problem.