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You arenāt alone, a lot of people ask questions related to being a born again Christian, baptism by immersion, salvation by faith, etc⦠Here is a rundown to the Church of Christ doctrine of salvation.
There are five steps involved in salvation, hearing, believing (faith), confessing, repenting, baptism. This doctine is based on multiple Scriptures.
Hearing
Luke 8:15 Those seeds that fell on good ground are the people who listen to the message and keep it in good and honest hearts. They last and produce a harvest.
Romans 10:17 No one can have faith without hearing the message about Christ.
Galations 3:2 I want to know only one thing. How were you given Godās Spirit? Was it by obeying the Law of Moses or by hearing about Christ and having faith in him?
Believing/Having Faith
John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
John 3:36 Everyone who has faith in the Son has eternal life. But no one who rejects him will ever share in that life, and God will be angry with them forever.
Ephesians 2:8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:
Repent
Luke 13:3 No, I tell you; but unless you repent, you will all likewise perish.
Acts 2:38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
Acts 17:30 The times of ignorance God overlooked, but now he commands all people everywhere to repent,
Confess
Romans 10:9 because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
1John 1:9 But if we confess our sins to God, he can always be trusted to forgive us and take our sins away.
Baptism by immersion (Any body of water will do as long as the baptizee can be fully immersed and the baptizer is a baptized Christian. Most Churches of Christ have a baptistry, about three feet wide, eight feet long and three to four feet deep).
Mat 28:19 Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
John 3:22 After this Jesus and his disciples went into the Judean countryside, and he remained there with them and was baptizing.
Colossians 2:12 having been buried with him in baptism, in which you were also raised with him through faith in the powerful working of God, who raised him from the dead.
Hebrews 6:1 We must try to become mature and start thinking about more than just the basic things we were taught about Christ. We shouldnāt need to keep talking about why we ought to turn from deeds that bring death and why we ought to have faith in God. 2 And we shouldnāt need to keep teaching about baptisms or about the laying on of hands or about people being raised from death and the future judgment.
We believe people must come to an understanding of Jesus message and sacrifice; and the consequence of rejecting that teaching. There is no set āage of accountabilityā some come to understand it at a young age, I baptized my daughter when she was nine, I was baptized at 11, my friends son was recently baptized at 6 (that is a great story Iāll tell you if you wantto hear it). Children who die unbaptized go to heaven, trusting in Godās mercy and complete knowledge of each personās heart.
Some denominations donāt teach that baptism is necessary for salvation because they consider it a work and as I noted above we are not saved by works. I always ask āisnāt saying a prayer a work as well?ā
Lastly, people who are born again havenāt done terrible things, just sins against God. And donāt apologize for asking questions
