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Just wondering, is yours the sect of Shia that is professed by the Iranian government? Also, how many of the twelve imams have already come in your belief?
yes and no. So I don’t want to paint you a rosy picture of how great this faith is. We have our own set of problems to deal with. The Iranian government and the supreme leader of Iran profess the same faith yes. That doesn’t mean we’re all in agreement with the Iranian government. There’s a lot of decent among the Shia scholars against the supreme leader, some are in jail, some are killed, others are exiled.

So all of the Imams have passed except for the 12th Imam. The Mahdi (as). Sunnis believe he is yet to be born. Shias believe he is already born and have been living among us for the last 1000 years or so and that he is in occultation hidden from us until such a time the muslims are ready to accept him. When they are ready to accept him he will reveal himself and lead the world.
 
Interesting. Is this statement by Muhammed in the Quran or some other extent works?

Sorry to burden you with these flood of question. 😛

MJ
I don’t mind, ask away. It’s not in the Qur’an it’s in the hadith books. These are collections of Muhammad’s (p) sayings and actions. The one I am thinking of goes like this “He who wants to see Noah in his determination, Adam in his knowledge, Abraham in his clemency, Moses in his intelligence and Jesus in his religious devotion should look at Ali”
 
Do you think that Ishmael is the father of islam? And do you think abraham killed Issac? Im sorry if that’s pretty elementary or uninformed. Are you kind of mad at abraham for casting out hagar?
 
Do you think that Ishmael is the father of islam? And do you think abraham killed Issac? Im sorry if that’s pretty elementary or uninformed. Are you kind of mad at abraham for casting out hagar?
I don’t know much about that but I can’t be mad at Abraham. We believe all the prophets are infallible or impeccable. They don’t commit any sins. Just for clarity and to avoid any confusion it doesn’t mean they can’t sin. It just means they are very conscious of God’s presence at all times so they chose not to sin. So whatever Abraham did is because he was commanded by God to do. I can’t be mad at him for that 🙂

our version of Abraham’s sacrifice is different from the Christian version. We share the same view with the Sunnis on this one and that is Abraham was commanded to sacrifice Ishmael. At the last moment God replaced Ishmael with a sheep that Abraham sacrificed. As for Ishmael we believe he is the father of the Arabs. Muhammad (p) is a descendant of Abraham through Ishmael.
 
Thank you for your reply. What about Issac? Do you think he was the father of the Jews? Why do many Muslims hate Jews? Why don’t they consider them brothers? Or do you?
 
I’m not very active on Forums because of work / family commitments but I pop in and out every now and then.

In the wake of the Boston Bombing I decided to register on a famous sunni/salafi forum.

Well 1 hour into my registration and my first post I was called all sorts of names, threatened with the sword, given the option to bash my face in with a baseball bat or a hockey stick and finally a forever ban for entrapments. I thought the whole thing was childish and at times amusing but I was disturbed at how down right mean/angry/violent these people are. But before I pop out again let me just say not all muslims are the same. What I mean is we don’t have one Islam. We have many Islams with a lot of differences among ourselves. I hope that non muslims can learn to see past the title/name and associated stereotypes.
Makes me wonder what you said. Or did it have to do with the fact that you are Shia?
 
Thank you for your reply. What about Issac? Do you think he was the father of the Jews? Why do many Muslims hate Jews? Why don’t they consider them brothers? Or do you?
Yes I believe Issac is the father of the Jews. I don’t personally have any bad feelings towards Jews. I guess I’m fortunate considering I lived in Saudi Arabia for a long time as a kid. We were taught to hate Jews from childhood in the schools, in the mosques. We were taught how the jews betrayed our prophet and how they are oppressing the palestinians and how the muslims will eventually kill all jews. This is all normal / background growing up in that environment so I’m not surprised that a lot of Muslims hate jews. It’s a sort of blind learned hatred. I guess I’ve always seen people or tried to see them for who they are as individuals and not pass judgement because of cultural or racial stereotypes.
 
Makes me wonder what you said. Or did it have to do with the fact that you are Shia?
me being shia had something to do with it. I posted a question in reference to the first islamic civil war. It was between Aisha and her followers on one side and Ali and his followers on the other sides. The sunnis consider Aisha to be mother of the believers and they respect Ali (so they say). I asked if they were alive during that time and had to pick a side, which side would they pick Ali or Aisha and why?

they called me a shia rafidhi dog 🙂 then someone else jumped on and said the only answer to the Shias is the sword. then someone else asked if I had a choice between a baseball bat and hockey stick which one would I chose to bash my own face with. They didn’t want to answer the question, some people felt it was a stupid question. Others were upset that I’m bringing up the past. In the end only 1 person answered they would fight on Ali’s camp.
 
I don’t mind, ask away. It’s not in the Qur’an it’s in the hadith books. These are collections of Muhammad’s (p) sayings and actions. The one I am thinking of goes like this “He who wants to see Noah in his determination, Adam in his knowledge, Abraham in his clemency, Moses in his intelligence and Jesus in his religious devotion should look at Ali”
Oic. Thanks.

Since Hadiths are sayings from Muhammad (I’ll spell it your way:D) , are they written by him or written by others of what he said? Just want a little clarification.

MJ
 
Oic. Thanks.

Since Hadiths are sayings from Muhammad (I’ll spell it your way:D) , are they written by him or written by others of what he said? Just want a little clarification.

MJ
They were collected by others long after he passed away. The hadiths were passed on orally from person to another, sometimes they were written down on pieces of paper or leaves or something but most of the time it was passed on orally and usually goes like this “person X narrates from Person Y who heard it from Person Z that the Prophet said…” at some point they started collecting these narrations into books. There’s a point of divergence here between the Sunnis and the Shias. The sunnis accept hadiths from anyone who heard it. Shias are particular in that they only accept hadiths from people who were loyal to Muhammad and his family. This means that we reject most of the hadith sunni hadith collections because the people who narrate those hadiths are enemies of Ali. Take Aisha for example, she fought an open battle against Ali so we don’t accept anything that comes from her.
 
Thank you for your answers Famdigy. Very good of you to be open to answering us on here. Welcome back to CAF and so sorry they were hateful to you on that other forum. I just don’t understand how the other Muslim groups you encountered could pray but not reach understanding. Do you know what I mean? If you pray, you become closer to the Father, so how can prayer sometimes have the opposite effect?
 
We have many Islams with a lot of differences among ourselves. I hope that non muslims can learn to see past the title/name and associated stereotypes.
In my time in the Oriental Church, I have learned that this is not so much the problem. Rather, the same kind of people who threatened to kill you on a messageboard are actually killing (and kidnapping, evicting, chasing out of whole countries) Christians in the Middle East. That is the problem.

You’re a nice person, Famdigy, and I’m glad that you enjoy it here relative to other places, but if there is one thing I wish that the Muslim would learn from the non-Muslim, particularly from the Eastern Christians who predate your religion in every place it now predominates and are today threatened with utter annihilation at the hands of its practicioners, it’s that Islam’s “image problem” if you will has to do with what people in your religion do and explicitly say they are doing in the name of your religion, and not with our reactions to it. It really is no different than how for many in the post-Christian, post-modern West, Christianity is associated with loud and ignorant bigots with political agendas who seek to impose their fundamentalism and biblical literalism on the rest of the society. Is that the majority of Christians in the world? I wouldn’t think so, but it is hard to convince those who see it as being so when that’s the kind of person they regularly interact with, who tells them that they are doing all this in accordance with true Christian faith. This is why hypocrisy is also a constant charge against religious people by the irreligious, because paradoxically, while more and more efforts are made in the West to regulate the expression of religion to essentially be “what you believe in your own church/synagogue/mosque, just don’t try to take it outside of there”, even those who believe in a religion-free public square still recognize on some level that a religion cannot be just that – it is also what you do.

So we can not say, as Christians or Muslims or whatever we are, “oh, there is more than one form of my religion; do not focus on stereotypes as though we are all like the bad people who claim to be X”. If they’re doing it, it is our problem, because a bad expression of religion hurts all its practitioners in the eyes of those who don’t practice it, and not because they necessarily harbor stereotypes and hatred – but because religion is not theory alone; it is also practice.

And in practice, your religion is not looking too good in the eyes of the rest of the world. Its ways of handling grievances do not fit in with the dominant modern ethos that says you shouldn’t blow up civilians to get your way. Its traditional justice system is seen as cruel in both its crimes and its punishments. It does not secure rights for women commensurate with what is offered in secular regimes. It is expansionist and politically violent on a scale that has been foreign to mainstream versions of Christianity, Judaism, and most other religions for centuries. Despite lip service to the contrary in the Qur’an (and, I will admit, some stunning and really wonderful examples of action in the real world, sometimes), it views itself and its precepts and holy places as inviolable and never to be set upon by non-Muslims, while treating non-Muslim religious culture and its holy places and artifacts as being essentially fair game for local and regional grievances (e.g., everyone cries now that the Umayyad mosque [previously the Church of St. John the Baptist, before the conquering Muslims confiscated the land] has been destroyed, but the oldest Christian Church in Syria was destroyed by “rebels” before that, and nobody cared).

Did you do any of these things? No, of course not. Did anyone you know do them? I’d be willing to bet that they didn’t. But they are done in the name of your religion on a more or less constant basis, and non-Muslims have every right to be sick of it. You should be sick of it, too. The difference between us is that as a Muslim you have a personal stake in it in a way that we Christians do not. Whether Islam has a good image or a bad image does not restore the Christian community of Homs, nor protect the native Christians of Tur 'Abdin or the Yazidis of Qahtaniya in Northern Iraq. People’s lives are what matter, not your religion’s PR, and until the first reaction of Muslims is to take action against those who end innocent life in the name of religion, I for one have no problem speaking in generalities about the trends that are very apparent in Islam that cause me concern. It has nothing to do with you personally or any given Muslim community, and everything to do with the fact that such things have been going on to a greater or lesser degree for 1400 years and counting, and somebody always has some reason why it’s really not about Islam, despite the fact that the “real” motivation makes absolutely no difference when looking at the results (death, murder, dispossession, kidnappings, etc.), and that other Muslims are constantly telling us (in Arabic and other languages that most people in the world with a favorable view of Islam do not understand) that that’s exactly why they’re doing it, and have all the Qur’anic and hadith backing that they feel they need. How exactly is a non-Muslim supposed to believe that, despite all this, Islam is really not like that?

Prove it. Prove by helping to make Islam not about that anymore, on a worldwide scale, forever and ever in perpetuity throughout the universe. Only Muslims can do that, just like only members of other religions can work to end religious violence in their own traditions. The solution is not to say “we’re not all like that”, but to recognize that some of you are like that, and that’s a problem for all of you. For all of us. For the whole world.
 
@littlenothing - They are lost beyond redemption in my opinion.
@jakasaki - thanks it’s good to be back

@dzheremi - you raise very valid points. I don’t dispute any of them but I sometimes ask myself. I’m a single individual, a small voice in an environment with many shouts so frail yet spiritually lethal. What is it that I can do as an individual to help make things better. The only thing that comes to mind is to speak out against the violence being perpetrated in the name of my Religion. To complicate things further, I’m part of a group that’s not even considered to be Muslim by many in that part of the world.

The root of the problem is the violence in Islam. This violence is rooted in the hadiths of Bukhari and other authoritative sources within the Sunni books. It’s supported and further propagated by the so called scholars. And so I don’t see my personal responsibility in this to only speak out against violence but I have to also speak out against the ideology that supports this violence.

I’m open to hearing your suggestions on the issue. What do you think we can do as individuals to help the situation get better?
 
The root of the problem is the violence in Islam. This violence is rooted in the hadiths of Bukhari and other authoritative sources within the Sunni books. It’s supported and further propagated by the so called scholars. And so I don’t see my personal responsibility in this to only speak out against violence but I have to also speak out against the ideology that supports this violence.

I’m open to hearing your suggestions on the issue. What do you think we can do as individuals to help the situation get better?
“Holiness consists simply in doing God’s will, and being just what God wants us to be.”
—St. Thérèse de Lisieux

“Holiness does not consist in doing extraordinary things. It consists in accepting, with a smile, what Jesus sends us. It consists in accepting and following the will of God.”
—Blessed Teresa of Calcutta
 
I’m not very active on Forums because of work / family commitments but I pop in and out every now and then.

In the wake of the Boston Bombing I decided to register on a famous sunni/salafi forum.

Well 1 hour into my registration and my first post I was called all sorts of names, threatened with the sword, given the option to bash my face in with a baseball bat or a hockey stick and finally a forever ban for entrapments. I thought the whole thing was childish and at times amusing but I was disturbed at how down right mean/angry/violent these people are. But before I pop out again let me just say not all muslims are the same. What I mean is we don’t have one Islam. We have many Islams with a lot of differences among ourselves. I hope that non muslims can learn to see past the title/name and associated stereotypes.
What did you do to be attacked like that?
 
@dzheremi - you raise very valid points. I don’t dispute any of them but I sometimes ask myself. I’m a single individual, a small voice in an environment with many shouts so frail yet spiritually lethal. What is it that I can do as an individual to help make things better.
This is the question that everyone asks themselves eventually, whether they are Muslim or not. I really do believe that no one is born to seek vengeance or extol violence. Even the Qur’an in prescribing fighting in Surat al-Baqara says that it is prescribed “though you dislike it”. And Muslims cry for their children lost to war and conflict the same as anyone else. The problem on all sides is that we have trouble sympathizing with people who are different than us, even if the only difference is in religion. I will openly admit to sometimes having this problem, because there is a mutual distrust between Christians and Muslims in a lot of places. I’m not sure whether that can ever be 100% overcome in all places, but we can certainly try at least to treat each other with human dignity and recognize that we are all valuable. There are still some good things that happen, even if it is usually not very much compared to the bad things. Like when the mentally-impaired Christian girl in Pakistan (I’m sorry, I can’t remember her name at the moment) was recently charged with blasphemy for allegedly burning the Qur’an. Someone (statistically speaking, probably a Muslim) came forward to report that a local Imam had framed the girl by putting burnt pages of the Qur’an in a trash bag that the girl was carrying as a way to get rid of the local Christian community, and then instead of continuing with the unjust prosecution, the charges were dropped against the girl and the Imam had to worry that he might be charged! This is justice in the face of naked hatred and the planned destruction of an entire community, and it took one brave person to stand up and say what they had seen to save the little girl’s life.

Or even in the wake of the Egyptian revolution, we saw Christians risking their lives to protect Muslims praying in Tahrir Square, and Muslims going to churches to protect the people in them from being bombed as they had been the previous year. This did not last long (Egypt is really going down the drain quite fast, sadly), but the fact that it happened more or less spontaneously in an environment where, for a little while, people saw each other as equal people and not as unequal adherents of different religions shows that such things are possible.

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I’m never going to like Islam as a theocratic religious system or a faith. I’m never going to think it is right, and I’m always going to speak out against it on that level. I would be betraying my Orthodox Christian faith if I did not do so…but at the same time, I hope there can come a day when we can have theological disagreements without risking violence. The traditional Islamic view of Jesus is, after all, deeply, deeply offensive to the most cherished beliefs of the Christian faith…but I can’t say I’ve ever wanted to hurt a Muslim or Muslims in general over it. Maybe others have in other times and places, with is not right. A lot of violence against Muslims done in Christian-majority countries is purely reactionary in the worst way, done out of fear because there is an awful lot of violence emanating from Islam, and some people think that by hurting Muslims they’re somehow helping their societies from becoming Islamic. Even our priests have sometimes had trouble because they dress all in black, have long beards, and obviously speak Arabic. Those kinds of stereotypes are obviously not helpful. So at this level I think we all have a stake in toning down rhetoric. But as even some Muslim intellectuals (e.g., Dhiyaa al-Musawi of Bahrain), the problem really is that what is preached from the mosques themselves, even those under government supervision in relatively tolerant Arab regimes, is really extremely hateful and provocative toward non-Muslims. That sort of thing needs to be opposed at all levels, no different than when some yahoo like that pastor in Florida decided he was going to burn a Qur’an and the leaders of many predominantly Christian countries (Germany, the USA, Canada, Cuba, etc.), as well as many religious organizations (the German Evangelical Alliance, the LDS Church, etc.) publicly and loudly condemned it. Or when that stupid “Innocence of Muslims” film resurfaced on Youtube, I remember reading an interview with the Coptic Bishop of Los Angeles, HG Bishop Serapion (who would have been the director’s bishop, had the director actually been an active member of the Church), published in the LA Times (no small feat) which not only explicitly condemned the film and any attempts to tie it to the wider Coptic community (and Pres. Muhammad Morsi did try to drag HG into court in Egypt over false rumors that the L.A. diocese was involved in making the film; the Coptic synod drafted a letter in reply essentially telling Morsi to go away), but went so far as to say the filmmaker as an individual needs to spend more time sitting in the confessional seat and less time in the director’s seat.
The only thing that comes to mind is to speak out against the violence being perpetrated in the name of my Religion. To complicate things further, I’m part of a group that’s not even considered to be Muslim by many in that part of the world.
You’re preaching to the choir here, too. If Copts are remembered for anything by other Christians it’s usually with the false charge of “monophysitism” tied to the church’s Christology, which effectively puts us out of many discussions that involve the rest of Christianity. But still you have to do what you can do. You can’t seriously tell me that there have never been any Shi’a extremists, or aren’t any in the modern day…sure, Hassan Nasrallah may talk pretty, but I don’t buy it…
The root of the problem is the violence in Islam.
I do not disagree.
And so I don’t see my personal responsibility in this to only speak out against violence but I have to also speak out against the ideology that supports this violence.
I agree with this, too. Everyone needs to do what they can to prevent violence in their community.
I’m open to hearing your suggestions on the issue. What do you think we can do as individuals to help the situation get better?
I think it depends on your situation. No religion is completely uniform across the globe. Look for what you can do in your local community first to mobilize people against ideologies that, after all, hurt your religion. Outside of that, identify trouble spots and try to engage people in them (you have the internet, so it is possible even if the person is far away). I have spent many an hour arguing with my Coptic friends that “Arab” does not equal “bad” or “terrorist”, and many more hours with Lebanese who feel nostalgic for the civil war that most of them are too young to remember or were not even alive during. There is a wonderful line in the film “We Loved Each Other So Much” (about modern Lebanon and Fairuz) where one of the Christian interviewees talks about how she struggles to relate to her own children: “I feel bad for them because all they know is this. They only know the destruction. They don’t know how good it was (before the war).”

I sorta feel like that can be said about the generation that’s growing up now (post “9/11”, Iraq war pt. II, Afghanistan conflict, “Arab Spring”…all these messes), so it makes trying to do what we can for peace all the more important. We can’t really afford any more dangerously unstable, easily manipulated/inflamed people who don’t know what peace is thinking that the only way to get it is by imposing their form of it by force on other people. (And that goes for people of all religions, political stances, etc.)
 
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