Boyfriend

[kaligirl]

Please pray for me, as I’m so lonely and depressed. For years I’ve prayed for a special man to enter my life. Last Christmas, a new one did. We had so much in common and things seemed to be going great. I really thought this could be “the one”. Then, he had to take a job out of town. He decided a month ago that he wanted to end the relationship because he didn’t want to make the long-distance efforts. I was devastated.

While focusing on work and training, last week it was discovered that he had a cerebral aneurysm, for which he’s just undergone brain surgery. I was told via a friend that he’s fine and will recover within the next month. I want SO MUCH to be there at his side, but it’s not my place since he broke up with me. I did have a text exchange with him the day before his surgery, and he told me his sister would call me to update me on his condition. However, his sister hasn’t phoned and won’t answer my calls.

Please pray that he will not only have a speedy recovery, but that he will change his priorities. I pray that he will reconsider a relationship with me. Work is important, but there are other things in life that are more important. I would be there for him no matter what! That’s how much I love him. Please let him realize this.

Thank you and God Bless!

 

[DiggidyDog]

Kaligirl, I am praying for your friend.

 

[juliamca]

I will pray for you , but I think you should go and visit him face to face and see if his thinking is different. His sister might have forgotten or does not remember she was suppose to call you.If you go and see him you will know for certain what his feeling are. God bless you!

 

[mim]

Kaligirl: I am praying for you and your friend…
Our Father,
who art in heaven,
hallowed be thy name.
Thy kingdom come,
thy will be done on earth
as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us.
Lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

 

[Trishie]

It sounds very painful for you, Kaligirl. You obviously care very much, and I pray that if God means you to be together and your friend really wants it, then God grant it will be. However it does seem that your friend has made a choice and that his sister is standing by that choice. If he is sure, then I pray you will find peace and recovery and that you will then find a wonderful man who cherishes and loves you with all his heart. It is hard, I know, especially when one has previously been lonely. It is more painful because you are worried and feel helpless.
May you turn to Jesus for comfort and strength and the Holy Spirit for wisdom.

Bless you

 

[pyropam]

Praying for you to have peace with all of this.
Also praying for a complete healing for him.

 

[kaligirl]

Thank you all for your prayers. His sister finally phoned me. She said she didn’t know how to use his phone. He is doing well, but in a lot of pain and he’ll be in ICU for at least 2 weeks.

I want to be there, but he’s several states away. I just would feel weird being the “ex”…I don’t know how they’d all feel about it, and I’m not family. Only his sister and aunt are there with him now.

Please continue your prayers for his recovery, the release from his pain and happiness for us both.

God Bless you all!