Broken Heart and Lost

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I have wrote about this before but I need more prayers. I just got broken up with by my boyfriend who I saw so much potential in our relationship together. I dont see a reason for the breakup and I feel like we should still be together. IT makes me feel as if I am not good enough for anyone because he just broke up and said he wasnt ready for our relationship. Everythign was great he said there were no bad times but he broke up wiht me and I am feeling empty and like I am missing out on a possible wonderful relationship and future with this man. He started giong to church wiht me and stopped smoking which made me feel like I was having such an impact on him too. I pray he is just scared because it was such an amazing thing and hope he realizes that he is missing out and comes back soon. I miss him and I miss us. Please pray his heart finds his way back to mine fast please!! thank you all soo very much!!
 
**God Bless you!

I’m sorry to hear of your heartbreak, but if you are patient & trust in Jesus, He will provide!

Remember, we men are like puppies. We like to be praised & “think” that the good you beautiful ladies bring to us was our idea!
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"And going a little farther he fell on his face and prayed, **“My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as thou wilt.” (**MT 26:39)

Sancta Maria, Mater Dei, Ora Pro Nobis Peccatoribus!

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I remember well my heartache reading your message on here.

Pray a lot, but be ready to accept God’s will in your life and His plans for you.

I remember getting so frustrated and angry when “the one” (several of them!) didn’t return my love for him. I even got upset with God.

But you know what? I am married to a wonderful man now who is perfect in almost every way, we love each other very much, and we’re devoted to our marriage which is very important in this crazy world.

Looking back, the Lord was right to deny me those guys. And you have to remember they have free will too, so God cannot “make” him fall in love with you…but things will be okay. Hope you are okay as well…take it one day at a time. hug
 
I know how devastating a heartbreak like this can be. Some people live their whole lives without experiencing it. Nothing like the horror of heartbreak to push you to extremes, especially when you know in your heart that this was a person you wanted to spend your life with. It has been five years since my heartbreak, and although I have moved on, I still think of her. I still have feelings of being in love with her. I can’t say that I think about her everyday or every week, but when I do, it is sweet and sad. I’m writing this post because I did something yesterday that I have not done in these five years. I sent her a card. It was a great card. It said that I think of her every now and then and wonder what she’s doing. That I know we can’t be together, but that doesn’t mean I still don’t care. I didn’t put a return address or sign the card. She will know who it’s from, though. I would never in a million years expect to hear from her. The sad thing about it is that I’m in another relationship where I am in love, but it is nothing like what I felt for “her.” I keep all my thoughts to myself and take satisfaction in the comfort of loving her in my heart as much as I want. She can’t say no to that. She can’t push that away. She can’t tell me I’m delusional. It’s so hard to live wanting something that you just can’t have, but somehow you do it. You take it one day at a time. You put one foot in front of the other. Stay away from alcohol during this time, too. Bad things can come with that. I read an excellent book about fighting to get your love one back. Maybe you can check it out. It has some great advice whether you get back together or you don’t. The title is How to Get Your Lover Back: Successful Strategies for Starting Over (& Making It Better Than It Was Before) by Blase Harris. Amazon has it for $10.88. After reading the book, you may find that it is exactly what you needed to do to get him back, but if it doesn’t work, at least you can find some peace. That’s the point I’m at five years later. Peaceful.

I wonder if you get to be with that person and love them as much as you want when you both get to Heaven. What are your thoughts on that?
 
God bless you BearingMyCross.

And may God comfort and guide you, AZ25

Holy Spirit of God’s love,
please act powerfully in the mind heart and soul of our grieving sister,
and in the mind, heart, and soul of her friend.
 
Praying for you.
Praying that your heart be filled with the Love of God
And that you share this Love.
 
THank you all so much. God bless you all for your prayers, help and hope!!
 
Oh AZ25 how I feel your pain. I know it’s hard and you just feel like your heart is coming right out of your chest. Just know that you are LOVED. That there is a greater Love out there just waiting for a “yes” from us to fill that void in our heart. I’ve cried and I’ve tried, just like you. But I am comforted knowing that there is a greater plan out there for us. That suffering is good (Sunday May 30th Mass, 2nd reading) [Rom 5:1-5] because it brings us to the love of God. Have patience and as I, too, struggle with this I will remember you.

I started praying this and just like that, the man I thought I was going to marry just walked out of my life, after dating for 3 years. So I thank God, because I might have made the biggest mistake of my life.
O Jesus, lover of the young, the dearest Friend I have, in all confidence I open my heart to You to beg Your light and assistance in the important task of planning my future. Give me the light of Your grace, that I may decide wisely concerning the person who is to be my partner through life. Dearest Jesus, send me such a one whom in Your divine wisdom You judge best suited to be united with me in marriage. May his character reflect some of the traits of Your own Sacred Heart. May he be upright, loyal, pure, sincere and noble, so that with united efforts and with pure and unselfish love we both may strive to perfect ourselves in soul and body, as well as the children it may please You to entrust to our care. Bless our friendship before marriage, that sin may have no part in it. May our mutual love bind us so closely, that our future home may ever be most like Your own at Nazareth.

O Mary Immaculate, sweet Mother of the young, to your special care I entrust the decision I am to make as to my future husband. You are my guiding Star! Direct me to the person with whom I can best cooperate in doing God’s Holy Will, with whom I can live in peace, love and harmony in this life, and attain to eternal joys in the next.

Amen
 
Forgot to add too that sitting in front of the Blessed Sacrament helps a lot too.

hug Hope you are having a good day.
 
AZ25 said:
I have wrote about this before but I need more prayers. I just got broken up with by my boyfriend who I saw so much potential in our relationship together. I dont see a reason for the breakup and I feel like we should still be together. IT makes me feel as if I am not good enough for anyone because he just broke up and said he wasnt ready for our relationship. Everythign was great he said there were no bad times but he broke up wiht me and I am feeling empty and like I am missing out on a possible wonderful relationship and future with this man. He started giong to church wiht me and stopped smoking which made me feel like I was having such an impact on him too. I pray he is just scared because it was such an amazing thing and hope he realizes that he is missing out and comes back soon. I miss him and I miss us. Please pray his heart finds his way back to mine fast please!! thank you all soo very much!!
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Lord Jesus Christ,
AZ25 is upset and disturbed,
and I pray that You will grant her
the grace of inner Peace.
As You commanded the storm winds at sea to be calm,
command the storms in her life to be calmed.
Give AZ25 the patience she needs
to cope with the burdens and anxieties of her life.
Grant AZ25 the strength to better deal with her problems,
and the understanding to be more tolerant
and kind to others.
Teach AZ25 to seek after Your will
which alone brings peace of mind
and peace of heart.
Amen
 
Lord Jesus Christ,
AZ25 is upset and disturbed,
and I pray that You will grant her
the grace of inner Peace.
As You commanded the storm winds at sea to be calm,
command the storms in her life to be calmed.
Give AZ25 the patience she needs
to cope with the burdens and anxieties of her life.
Grant AZ25 the strength to better deal with her problems,
and the understanding to be more tolerant
and kind to others.
Teach AZ25 to seek after Your will
which alone brings peace of mind
and peace of heart.
Amen
 
Be with AZ25 today Lord. Help her throughout the day and bring comfort to any worries that confront her. Ease the emptiness of her heart and bring solace to her spirit. Let her know she is not alone and that all men are not alike. Amen
 
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