My thoughts and prayers are w/ you. May the Lord give you strength, wisdom and discernment to help you heal. Do I think his next relationship will work? I doubt it, but he is now out of your life and perhaps this is better now than when married. Even though it was a couple of years and it seemed lovingly, it doesn’t sound like he was ready to be married and took the easy way out which is to settle for living w/ someone else which he can easily walk out on if it doesn’t work out for him. I honestly believe what comes around goes around in God’s timing. I don’t mean this comment in a revengeful or hateful way. I am just saying that God handles it all his way. This man may have made a mistake, but God is not wanting you to be part of his mistakes. I hear you loud and clear as I was in a 3 year relationship, and I was just a month ago blind sided when he decided to go on another date when we had plans to go out that weekend. So I blind sidedly found out he had interest in someone else. No warning. Just done. Today, thanks to this forum and support of friends, I am feeling better because I have faith that the Lord will bring to me a holy man. A man who will want and respect what a true relationship is about. God be w/ you and grief, cry, talk to God as much as you can. Heal and take time to heal. When you look back at this, you will see that it was all for the best. God always has a purpose. He has better things for you ahead. Think of it as, this is the beginning to the new and great things God has in store for you. God Bless and keep praying. The Rosay helps a lot to heal broken hearts. I have been praying the rosay everyday. Amen!
