Adam thanks for the claification. Are you in college there, or from there? Steubenville is our home. Though we are in Irondale Al we are from Wintersville, and still own a home there.

Maybe someday to return.
Do you go to one of the Eastern Rite Churches around there? Toronto, Weirton, or Mingo Junction?
Katie, the Eastern Churches are very strong in their traditions for the most part. As Vatican II stated so clearly, it is necessary for to go back to our own traditions, especially in the United States. Unfortunately, that is one of the things(female altar servers) that has occured because of Latinization in so many churches. Many Roman Bishops were insistant on statues instead of icons, or required confessionals to be built, when confession was done in front of the Icon of Christ. We had no need for them, but they were done in obedience. Just as our married clergy was forced to leave this country by Roman Bishops. Clebate clergy alone is not part of our tradition, we had both. As we continue to heal and restore or different rites, those things will cease and are ceasing.
Adam is right, if your read the Book of Litvitcus you will see the altar of the Byzantine Church. We feel the same way, behind the iconostasis is the Holy of Holies. And to bypass the laws of God just to satisfy women is not part of our tradition.
Also, Katie our celebration of the Divine Liturgy in the Byzantine or Greek Catholic Churches that of St. John Chrysostom and St. Baisl the Great, comes from the Divine Liturgy of St. James the Apostle, it was just organized and added to slightly in the forth century. In our monasteries the Liturgy of St. James the Apostle is celebrated daily in some and on a regular basis in most of them. So our tradition in Liturgical Worship has not changed in over 2000 years. Maybe this help you understand part of the reasons we hold so tightly to our ways.
Pani Rose