Princess_Abby:
Leaner, aren’t you afraid of the radiation on your ovaries??? I would be SO ANGRY that they were taking an x-ray over such an intensely delicate area to determine whether or not they had left something in me due to their negligence in the first place!!! Did they discuss with you the risk of having that area x-rayed??? I broke my tailbone as a teenager and my doctor wouldn’t even consider x-raying me due to the exposure in that area.
Thank you ladies for trying to reassure me but LORD there is some scary, incompetent people out there.
Of course I was!! LOL – but the idea of sepsis was more frightening to me, and if it had already been in there a week, well…
My MIL had just arrived that morning, and we were all getting “acquainted” with my newest darling when the call came…now you need to know this part – my MIL was the chief of nursing in a major boston area hospital…several years ago, a sponge was left in a patient – the patient got sepsis, and died. The resulting lawsuit/settlement was in the millions, and while she was not even at work that day, someone had to hang, and since she was the head of nursing, and it was her nurses that “did it” she ended up with a severance package after 30yrs of blood sweat and tears…it was like her worst nightmare was repeating itself, only this time it was smack in the middle of her own family…she was crying, I was crying… – looking back the irony is astounding, but at the time…
To be fair, my first section was fine. Recovery took a while, but I had nothing to compare it to except my appendectomy…which was slightly less painful, and a bit quicker, but also laproscopic…so it seemed to fit… then I started listening to women who’d birthed vaginally…they were up and moving that day, feeling better by the time they went home…I was on the couch for two weeks recovering…and I thought “oh, I guess it is a huge difference after all!” LOL. Again, having no vaginal birth to compare it to, I have only watched others and heard their tales…
but long answer short, yep, it bothered me, but the alternative was even worse…