Brad,
I can’t convince you of anything other than to investigate and think for yourself.
SMART concerning addiction “You are not your behavior”…this is the tenant. Ok…so if this is true and you are not your behavior then how can you define any behavior as an identity.
Whenever I read anything about sexual orientation and see this lie…as you know it was homosexual psychiatrists that removed homosexuality from the DSM…
You can find the truth here…
thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/204/81-words
So anything you read that has the aforementioned lie should cause concern about anything else that is being read in an article about this topic. One lie…the rest is lies. So what if everyone followed suit. They accepted the lie too.
If you know and understand that the established medical groups promote addiction as disease and you know that is a lie then you now know that there are campaigns by the medical associations to cause you to believe and accept things that aren’t true. These are powerful organizations that people unkowingly accept as guardians of truth and they lie.
So once you understand that they lie and are trying to cause you to accept a lie you have to start weighing information on your own and asking yourself questions that make sense.
That is the start of the journey…
Behavior science. We can change our behavior, manage our emotions, sadness, anger, whatever you pick and you see a therapist for this…with the one exception…passion…are you kidding me…passion is fixed…
We all have minds that take in the world and store information and all we have in our minds is stored information and imagination. Imagined reality is ever as real as reality. The basis for changing behavior is using both of those and if you put a road block in and say with one exception then you have to ask…Why?
Why can I change any behavior, why can I change any action I choose with the exception of one…then you have to ask yourself…
How does our mind work? What model of the mind is predictable and makes sense? You have to be able to get to this point and then you can start filtering information and making sense out of all this stuff.
Your mind, my mind works the same. We all take in information and filter it with deletion, distortion and generalization. This is a starting point. Once you understand this you can almost read minds by looking at how people write and understand their inherent bias…