There are so many corrupted views of Catholicism, even among the ranks of the clergy. What I mean by corrupted views are those who support everything from gay activity and culture to those who will actually defend abortion, and then there is everything inbetween, such as questioning the divinity of Christ, elimination of the Blessed Mother from any discussion or devotion, etc. This says nothing of how people have gotten to the point that so many now do not understand the Real Presence. It didn’t happen because priests and religious were teaching people. It happened because those responsible for catechetical and catechist development kind of left those things out of the bigger picture.
That is only the tip of the ice berg and most of us who grew up in the 60’s and beyond were subject to very dilluted catechism. That includes many of the priests of the same generation. Some priests were further conditioned during their seminary years to steer clear of controversial issues (I know many priests who have attested to this first hand - including well-known Fr. John Corapi, and my own pastor).
It is very, very important that Catholics today do all they can to learn on their own. By all means engage the priest in discussion, but spend some time studying alone and taking advantage of the many multi-media resources available.
Fr. John Corapi is very solid and has many programs on EWTN.
You can not go wrong with Fr. John A. Hardon’s works and many of his writings are available online at
therealpresence.org/
Here are some of his catechetical books. I highly recommend even the Q&A or Pocket Catechism. But the big gold book makes an outstanding reference at it provides more background.
therealpresence.org/edu.htm
Then there is the
Catechism of the Catholic Church and the new
Compendium, which will be an easier read. The latter will be out in January. It is issued by the Vatican.
Once you begin reading a methodical and very solid approach to the details left out in most catechisms of the last 40 years, our beautiful Catholic faith will bloom before your eyes.
Your classroom can be these forums. Read a little from the beginning of any book and as you get stuck on something, come talk about it. When in doubt, use “Ask an Apologist” especially if there is much disagreement on a particular issue.
You will find that some priests will contradict what is in those books. That is a good time to consider shifting to another parish where you will get preaching and advice that is in full communion with Rome. Some of these people mean well and are victims themselves, so we must pray for them.
More good resources:
http://www.newadvent.org/
And, of course EWTN is solid in what you will learn and the audio library is great. I highly recommend “Does the Church Still Teach That?”, and anything with Fr. Benedict Groeschel, Fr. John Corapi, Fr. Mitch Pacwa among the many that are solid in what they preach and teach.
http://www.ewtn.com/vondemand/audio/series_index.asp
Bottom line is that you only need to follow what your priest tells you or teaches you, if what he tells or teaches you is in communion with Rome. The only way you will know that is to learn on your own.