Can A Priest Ever Mention, anything Related to What he Heard in a Confession?

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No, not even then. Not if it will reveal the identity of the penitent.
If that is true it’s very problematic , we should help kids in danger and life threatening situations.

Fortunately I have been told Priests would protect kids and those in imminent danger, yes even if information gained in confession. Its a parish congregational agreement to protect families.

So by the book no as you stated, based upon reality yes safety is first and thank goodness.
 
Hello Everyone,

This post is not for me, but rather for a friend of mine who is more than “slightly” worried.
He has been having issues with pornography, and frequently confesses this to his priest.

After his last confession, he mentioned to the priest that his father is trying to sell a car, AND apparently the priest told him “Let your father see me this week.”

So now my friend is worried that the priest will mention something from his confessions, to his father. Well the rest is self explanatory.

I tried telling him, that the priest is just interested in buying the car from his father, or probably knows someone who is, but he is still worried that the priest will expose the details of his confessions, to his father.

SO will a priest ever mention anything from a confession to anyone? OR To a family member? As Far as I know it never happens, but I’m just curious if there are any exceptions to the rule, and seal of confession etc, etc.

Replies would be appreciated.
In my 70 years I have never heard of a priest who broke the seal of confession, not even one who left the priesthood or retired. Besides endangering their own salvation there may be a very practical reason or two at play. Remember, priests hear thousands of confessions in a life time. If he broke the seal in one case, might not that place his life in danger? After all, others might fear they might be exposed too and decide to take the priest’s life to prevent possible exposure. 🤷
 
Hello Everyone,

This post is not for me, but rather for a friend of mine who is more than “slightly” worried.
He has been having issues with pornography, and frequently confesses this to his priest.

After his last confession, he mentioned to the priest that his father is trying to sell a car, AND apparently the priest told him “Let your father see me this week.”

So now my friend is worried that the priest will mention something from his confessions, to his father. Well the rest is self explanatory.

I tried telling him, that the priest is just interested in buying the car from his father, or probably knows someone who is, but he is still worried that the priest will expose the details of his confessions, to his father.

SO will a priest ever mention anything from a confession to anyone? OR To a family member? As Far as I know it never happens, but I’m just curious if there are any exceptions to the rule, and seal of confession etc, etc.

Replies would be appreciated.
No!

In the extremely unlikely circumstances it happens: report the priest to his bishop immediately.
 
If that is true it’s very problematic , we should help kids in danger and life threatening situations.

Fortunately I have been told Priests would protect kids and those in imminent danger, yes even if information gained in confession. Its a parish congregational agreement to protect families.

So by the book no as you stated, based upon reality yes safety is first and thank goodness.
A priest may encourage a penitent to notify police of his/her actions or to seek counseling (but to my understanding, cannot withhold absolution if the penitent does not), but a priest could not hear a confession, then go call the cops and say, “Come pick up so and so” - no matter how awful the crime.

What you have posited here is false. There are governments that have tried to violate the seal of the confessional for the reasons you state above, but a priest is still under obligation to never divulge what he hears in the confessional.
 
If that is true it’s very problematic , we should help kids in danger and life threatening situations.

Fortunately I have been told Priests would protect kids and those in imminent danger, yes even if information gained in confession. Its a parish congregational agreement to protect families.

So by the book no as you stated, based upon reality yes safety is first and thank goodness.
A priest who would do that is automatically excommunicated. Show me one parish where that is indeed an agreement and I’ll show you a parish that doesn’t know the congregation’s boundaries and which thinks the Parish Council really runs the show.
 
Yes, life threatening or a child in danger.
This is completely wrong!

Priests are not permitted to tell anyone what they have heard in confession.

You can come up with any scenario - the answer will never change. Priests cannot reveal what thay have heard in confession.
 
This is completely wrong!

Priests are not permitted to tell anyone what they have heard in confession.

You can come up with any scenario - the answer will never change. Priests cannot reveal what thay have heard in confession.
Sorry but that is mis information. See my above post.
 
Sorry but that is mis information. See my above post.
On the contrary. There are no circumstances in which a priest can break the seal of the confession. I cannot use terms that are strong enough to emphaise this point. Priests cannot reveal what they have heard in confession - NEVER!
 
On the contrary. There are no circumstances in which a priest can break the seal of the confession. I cannot use terms that are strong enough to emphaise this point. Priests cannot reveal what they have heard in confession - NEVER!
OK thanks. We will have to agree to disagree.
 
Any priest who breaks the seal effectively commits spiritual suicide. Strong enough for you?

And it’s not a matter of agree to disagree-- If you don’t believe the seal is inviolable that’s a problem. If a priest doesn’t believe it’s inviolable he should probably be removed until he realizes it IS inviolable.

I agree it is sad, but it is necessary. Confession is between God and the person, not the person and the priest. If God chooses to divulge the information told to Him through the priest, that is His choice, not the priest’s.
 
Hello Everyone,

This post is not for me, but rather for a friend of mine who is more than “slightly” worried.
He has been having issues with pornography, and frequently confesses this to his priest.

After his last confession, he mentioned to the priest that his father is trying to sell a car, AND apparently the priest told him **“Let your father see me this week.”
**
So in other words, he said, “Tell you father to talk to me about, BECAUSE I CAN’T talk to him about since you mentioned it to me during Confession.” 👍

The fact that the priest said it in this way tells you that he doesn’t plan on talking to the father about the car unless the father brings it up.
 
Any priest who breaks the seal effectively commits spiritual suicide. Strong enough for you?

And it’s not a matter of agree to disagree-- If you don’t believe the seal is inviolable that’s a problem. If a priest doesn’t believe it’s inviolable he should probably be removed until he realizes it IS inviolable.

I agree it is sad, but it is necessary. Confession is between God and the person, not the person and the priest. If God chooses to divulge the information told to Him through the priest, that is His choice, not the priest’s.
Disagree with many of your premises. We can pound our fists on the table but that does not equate to fact or fiction.
 
Disagree with many of your premises. We can pound our fists on the table but that does not equate to fact or fiction.
Show me one Church document that says the seal can be broken in those cases. In return, I’ll show you 100 documents that says it cannot.
 
So in other words, he said, “Tell you father to talk to me about, BECAUSE I CAN’T talk to him about since you mentioned it to me during Confession.” 👍

The fact that the priest said it in this way tells you that he doesn’t plan on talking to the father about the car unless the father brings it up.
Thank you for your reply. I forgot to mention that the priest did ask him for details of the car, and also if they found any buyers yet. Maybe you’re right about the priest not planning on talking about the car: but it just puzzles me.

He asked for information about the car, and If the confessions are supposed to be private, then they wouldn’t talk about confessions at all. Unless the priest is simply interested in meeting the father. I still think it is about the car, but I could be wrong.
 
I am not pounding my fists on the table (its the wall, if you must know :D). It is very simply a matter of the Church documents banning it under all circumstances, regardless of what your priest says.
 
We will have to agree to disagree.
No, we will not. It is the consistent teaching of the Church that the seal of the confession cannot be broken, ever. You can come back with as many scenarios as you wish: can the seal of the confession be broken if …? The answer will be consistent, no!

You must prove that priests can break the seal in some circumstances. I will save you time. Do not look. You shall not find one.

This forum is read by people who are considering becoming Catholics. It is disingenuous to post erroneous information on such an important aspect of the Church’s life.
 
Disagree with many of your premises.
That is your prerogative. It does not alter the teaching of the Catholic Church
We can pound our fists on the table but that does not equate to fact or fiction.
It was not fiction, it was fact. The seal is inviolable. A priest who breaks the seal is excommunicated. No ecclesiatical authority has to consider the case and decide to excommunicate the priest. He is excommunicated ipso facto according to the law.

Any priest who does not believe in the seal of the confession certainly should not be hearing confessions.

As was said the priest is in persona Christi when he hears confessions. When you confess to a priest you are confessiong to God. It is not for the priest to choose whether or not your sins can be revealed.
 
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