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Billy_Buescher
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I see no reason for you not to return to Mass tomorrow. Just not receive communion until you get the OK from your priest.
We’re getting a few steps ahead of ourselves, but a convalidation is basically an exchange of marriage vows. I had one myself a few years down the road after I civilly married my wife outside the Church without dispensation. It can be done outside of a mass and can be done in 10 to 15 minutes. It would be done in front of a deacon or priest. That said, there may be some marriage prep before it’s done, to be sure you understand the sacrament and how Catholics view marriage. It could be one meeting, it could be a course. Your priest would determine what he thinks is the best route. If your wife is absolutely opposed to this, there’s a process called radical sanation which may be pursued. It’s not preferred, but your wife wouldn’t need to be involved.Yes, my first marriage was in the Catholic Church. She was a practicing Catholic, as was I at the time. What would this convalidation require on behalf of my second wife??
Exactly what I thought of too.radical sanation