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AMEN !!!We often spend so much time and energy on whether or not this was a mortal sin or a venial sin. Regardless, we should get our butt to Confession and move on!
AMEN !!!We often spend so much time and energy on whether or not this was a mortal sin or a venial sin. Regardless, we should get our butt to Confession and move on!
This is a link to a rather long piece from a holy priest that addresses some of your thoughts I think:In 3rd grade, I cheated on a Science test and ironically a Religion test. And remembering back (Iām in 8th now) I had a fairly well-formed conscience. Is it possible for an 8 year old to have filled all 3 conditions for a mortal sin and in this situation. I donāt think I knew was a mortal sin when I was 8 though I just knew it was REALLY REALLY BAD:banghead: .Iām asking this cause I read a dream of John Bosco describing innocence (from mortal sin) preserved by penance and I was wondering if this would rule me out of the innocent category. I pray not.
Any help is GREATLY APPRECIATED
P.S. Donāt worry Iām not scrupulous about this.Iām simply curious and Iāve already gone to confession long ago for it.
I absolutely agree!My inclination is to say that an elementary school exam isnāt grave matter.
Grave matter aside, I think it would be rare for an eight year old to commit a mortal sin. I think most eight year olds donāt have a clear enough idea of what sin really is. Any child can tell you that a sin makes God unhappy, but to really understand those words is something else entirely. Not understanding the nature of a sin would, I think, reduce culpability to venial at most.
I donāt even know if it could qualify as a sin, let alone a mortal sin. Kids at 8 years of age are still in the process of creating a moral conscious, and most of the time this doesnāt kick in until a person is closer to adulthood, although children do know right from wrong. Remember, sin is a moral judgment that a person makes with regard to behavior and carrying it through even though he or she knows that it is wrong and against Church teaching. Your moral decisions now are quite different than what they were in 3rd grade, believe me. If cheating hasnāt become a way of life for you now, I donāt think you have to worry about it.In 3rd grade, I cheated on a Science test and ironically a Religion test. And remembering back (Iām in 8th now) I had a fairly well-formed conscience. Is it possible for an 8 year old to have filled all 3 conditions for a mortal sin and in this situation. I donāt think I knew was a mortal sin when I was 8 though I just knew it was REALLY REALLY BAD:banghead: .Iām asking this cause I read a dream of John Bosco describing innocence (from mortal sin) preserved by penance and I was wondering if this would rule me out of the innocent category. I pray not.
Any help is GREATLY APPRECIATED
P.S. Donāt worry Iām not scrupulous about this.Iām simply curious and Iāve already gone to confession long ago for it.
I have to agree with you. It seems that we obsess (myself included) over the finer details. If you feel itās borderline, confess it and let God sort it all out.I think this paragraph should be cut and pasted in every thread that starts with āIs this a mortal sin?ā
We often spend so much time and energy on whether or not this was a mortal sin or a venial sin. Regardless, we should get our butt to Confession and move on!
I agree.I donāt even know if it could qualify as a sin, let alone a mortal sin. Kids at 8 years of age are still in the process of creating a moral conscious, and most of the time this doesnāt kick in until a person is closer to adulthood, although children do know right from wrong. Remember, sin is a moral judgment that a person makes with regard to behavior and carrying it through even though he or she knows that it is wrong and against Church teaching. Your moral decisions now are quite different than what they were in 3rd grade, believe me. If cheating hasnāt become a way of life for you now, I donāt think you have to worry about it.
In 3rd grade, I cheated on a Science test and ironically a Religion test. And remembering back (Iām in 8th now) I had a fairly well-formed conscience. Is it possible for an 8 year old to have filled all 3 conditions for a mortal sin and in this situation. I donāt think I knew was a mortal sin when I was 8 though I just knew it was REALLY REALLY BAD:banghead: .Iām asking this cause I read a dream of John Bosco describing innocence (from mortal sin) preserved by penance and I was wondering if this would rule me out of the innocent category. I pray not.
Any help is GREATLY APPRECIATED
P.S. Donāt worry Iām not scrupulous about this.Iām simply curious and Iāve already gone to confession long ago for it.
This is a blanket statement, which should always be avoided. If a child so young can achieve sainthood, surely they can also commit grievous sin. I believe that most apologists would disagree that it is impossible for 8-year-olds to sin mortally.8 year olds canāt commit mortal sins. Cheating in a exam when you are 8 doesnāt constitute towards a mortal sin. Sure itās a sin, but children donāt necessarily have the firmness of morality impressed in them. Neither do they have as much self control an adult.
My friend,Weāre members of a Church which will not say that even Hitler is in Hell, but some of us want to burn 8-year olds for all eternity. Sad.
Well, it is very necessary to know whether or not a sin is mortal or venial. The proper form of Confession calls for the penitent to tell the confessor which sins are mortal and which are not. The confessor must know this so that he can properly counsel the penitent.We often spend so much time and energy on whether or not this was a mortal sin or a venial sin. Regardless, we should get our butt to Confession and move on!
No, I donāt think so. The criteria for sin in general and mortal sin in particular are not identical. The criteria for mortal sin are more stringent. Therefore, it **does not **logically follow that āIf you have the capacity to sin, you have the capacity to mortally sin.āOnce you know right from wrong (which is the very definition of what it means to have reached the age of reason), you have the capacity to sin. If you have the capacity to sin, you have the capacity to mortally sin.
Yes, I agree a mortal sin is āharderā to commit, however, let us revisit what a mortal sin is:No, I donāt think so. The criteria for sin in general and mortal sin in particular are not identical. The criteria for mortal sin are more stringent. Therefore, it **does not **logically follow that āIf you have the capacity to sin, you have the capacity to mortally sin.ā
I realize that there are other factors necessary for a sin to be mortal. Letās look at them (from CCC 1857):No, I donāt think so. The criteria for sin in general and mortal sin in particular are not identical. The criteria for mortal sin are more stringent. Therefore, it **does not **logically follow that āIf you have the capacity to sin, you have the capacity to mortally sin.ā
A good point, too.I realize that there are other factors necessary for a sin to be mortal. Letās look at them (from CCC 1857):
That was my point.
- Grave matter
- Full knowledge
- Complete consent
Which one of these is an eight year old unable to do? And, if so, why make the Sacrament of Confession availabe to them? We are only obligated to confess mortal sins, so if an 8 year old is by nature incapable of committing a mortal sin, why would they need Confession?
One remarks, in passing, that a twist on the aforesaid error is not entirely absent from the current contention that ālittle totsā are so incapable of sin that they do not need sacraments to release them from faultsā¦
Pius X, as we have recalled, saw the āage of discretionā as applying equally to both sacraments as it does to going to school. He saw this norm as suggested by the first indications a child gives that he is using reasoning powers and, therefore, making decisions and choosing sides not only within the family but on the battle field of life. He thought that a child by that age could know the difference between ordinary bread and bread somehow identified with the bread of angels, sacred bread containing a divine mystery. He also declared it his opinion that the same child knows what is right or wrong, whether it be a matter of torturing a cat (in due course a prisoner of war), being caught with oneās hand in the marmalade jar (in due course, the public treasury), or defying the authority of oneās parents (in due course, of God Himself)ā¦
Indeed, whether the āmatterā of the marmalade jar rises to the level of āgraveā required for a sin to be mortal, the idea of introducing children to the sacrament of reconciliation places them in the way of grace. And brings them into a habit that they will need as their lives and their choices become more complex and the consequences of their actions become more serious.A good point, too.
No, I donāt think so. The criteria for sin in general and mortal sin in particular are not identical. The criteria for mortal sin are more stringent. Therefore, it **does not **logically follow that āIf you have the capacity to sin, you have the capacity to mortally sin.ā
Full knowledge is the criterion that would likely be unfulfilled by someone who has barely reached the age of reason.I realize that there are other factors necessary for a sin to be mortal. Letās look at them (from CCC 1857):
Which one of these is an eight year old unable to do? And, if so, why make the Sacrament of Confession availabe to them? We are only obligated to confess mortal sins, so if an 8 year old is by nature incapable of committing a mortal sin, why would they need Confession?
- Grave matter
- Full knowledge
- Complete consent
That was my point.
Yes they can. The Church recognizes the Age of Reason to be that of your average 7 year old. This is, by defintion, the level of reason necessary to have sufficent knowledge of right or wrong to freely choose to know the gravity of the act and still freely choose to do it.8 year olds canāt commit mortal sins. Cheating in a exam when you are 8 doesnāt constitute towards a mortal sin. Sure itās a sin, but children donāt necessarily have the firmness of morality impressed in them. Neither do they have as much self control an adult.
No it is not simply arbitrary. The Church did not simply pick a number and call it the age of Reason.7 is a pretty arbitrary number. Why 7 and not 8, or even 6? It all depends on the child. A 7 year old can rarely understand the consequences of sin, much less mortal sin. Besides, cheating on an exam would rarely, if ever, constitute a mortal sin.
Yes, another good point.Indeed, whether the āmatterā of the marmalade jar rises to the level of āgraveā required for a sin to be mortal, the idea of introducing children to the sacrament of reconciliation places them in the way of grace. And brings them into a habit that they will need as their lives and their choices become more complex and the consequences of their actions become more serious.
Still, I canāt help thinking that even a child who commits an āinnocentā act of disobedience can start a chain of events that has devastating consequences. The most recent example that comes to mind is the 9-year-old in California who started the fatal wildfires last year. He was surely disobeying his parents by playing with matches.
That is why simple obedience to oneās parents is such a big deal in childhood.