Ah, yes! I am so glad you brought this up, and that, it appears, you seem to find it immoral.
Are you of the position that x = no harm?
If so, then what of the argument, proposed by some atheists here on the CAFs, that no one is harmed by prostitution and therefore it is moral?
What harm do you believe is encompassed in a sexual liaison between a prostitute and her client?
Well, I admit I cannot exclude – in principle – an encounter with a prostitute that was not non-exploitative, or marked by genuine intimacy. In that respect, I
am a relativist – just as a Christian is a relativist, arguably, in making exceptions to the injunction “do not kill.” If the injunction not to kill is not absolute and inviolable, then it is a relative injunction (and the statement, “well, it’s not really killing,” ultimately a matter of semantics).
Ultimately, even if “do not exploit” is absolute, there is still the question of whether a particular behavior is exploitative, by definition.
Buying someone’s body for money is pretty exploitative. If you get to keep them, they’re your slave; if you just want to rent them for a little while, they’re a prostitute.
But, again, I don’t maintain that the experience of true intimacy – in the manner of a Sonia from “Crime and Punishment”, of a Liza from “Notes from the Underground,” or of the film “Leaving Las Vegas” (with Nicolas Cage) – is absolutely impossible, in the arms of a prostitute.
It would be a matter of not
because of, but
in spite of.
And, as regards exploitation, it is not just that you are “renting” them for money, as your temporary property, but – if they are impoverished, or feeding a drug habit – you are exploiting them as you would an impoverished worker, taking advantage of their need for the money you are paying them.
If they are mentally ill or mentally disturbed – in need of counseling – you are not part of their solution, but their problem; reinforcing the very things they are in need of counseling
for. You are their “anti-psychologist.”