Do you think an eternal hell can at all be reconciled with a good God and human free will, and if so, what would those conditions be?
Hmm, such a good question! I’ll assume that by “eternity” we’re meaning “neverending” and “inescapable.” So, let’s see, did you ever read CS Lewis’
Great Divorce? I did a while ago, maybe 15+ years ago. In it (sorry to spoil) he envisions a sort of bus-line that would go to Hell upon death (or could be taken to heaven, if so desired). Which would make Hell “escapable.” Folks also like to quote Lewis as saying that the door to Hell is locked “from the inside,” by the prisoner. Very Rev Robert Barron describes the person in hell like the individual at a party but who doesn’t want to be there at all, so she’s slunk over in a corner, moping. This is in line with the “getting what you want” aspect that you mention above.
All of this imagery, I can wrap my mind around. I really can get that. But my main problem with it is that it seems like pretty much more of the same—more of the dysfunction that fills this present reality.
But considering a place of
neverending torment/suffering from which there is no exit? That’s a very hard pill to swallow.
I’m not sure of a couple of things. First, how could God be said to
love those in this place? To love another is to will and work for the good of the other, as other, so how is God loving a human in such a realm as Hell? God is holding that person in existence so that she may be tormented forever, and we all understand this to be
love?!
All one ever hears in reply to this question is that God is honoring the choice of the human (as if that’s the greatest good—to honor another’s choice—even if that choice leads to one’s utter ruin in Hell and the complete thwarting of the possibility of beatitude). But perhaps more to the point, I’m thoroughly Thomistic in my understanding of God. God is simple. There is no potentiality within him whatsoever, so He is not standing by to see what my decision is going to be, and then He’ll send me to Hell. And I don’t mean foreknowledge, because choosing to send me to Hell on the basis of His foreknowledge of my free act is still a contingent decision on His part, which isn’t possible. He has no potentiality to actualize. He’s also impassible. He cannot be affected (e.g., “offended”) by my decisions, for or against Him.
What I’m getting at is this. When one fully accepts this Thomistic understanding of God as the unconditioned, purely Actual, the more difficult it is to see anything as outside of his providence and governance.