As I said, I think it was their polite way of saying don’t ask. Everything was very friendly.
No, Joe Kelley, you were absolutely right in your first post. It was not a polite way of saying no. They were serious about asking Rome first. Maronites are usually well acquainted with Eastern Canon Law. They even had one of their priests in the Roman Rota, Mgr. Hanna Alwan (now a bishop).
Permission from the Holy See (not from the Pope himself, but from the Congregation for the Eastern Churches, which receives delegated powers from the Pope himself) should be sought in this case for the **licit **celebration of this marriage in the Latin Church (I’m saying
licit, not valid - people often make a confusion between these two different canonical concepts - for validity, the Maronite bishop’s or pastor’s consent would suffice).
They are both Maronites, so there is no element of connection with the Latin Church. That’s why the Congregation for the Eastern Churches has already declared that permission coming from the Holy See is needed for Eastern catholic to get
licitly married in the Latin rite
if both of them are Eastern Catholics. Have a look:
INSTRUCTIONS FOR APPLYING THE LITURGICAL PRESCRIPTIONS OF THE CODE OF CANONS OF THE EASTERN CHURCHES
Congregation for the Eastern Churches
“83. It is always necessary to take into account that, with the exception of the case in which the Hierarch or the parish priest are of another Church , with respect to the norm of can. 916 of the Code of Canons of the Eastern Churches,
the celebration must occur, , according to the rites of the spouses, or of one of them if it is an inter-ritual marriage.
Therefore, a celebration in another rite is illicit, but can be authorized by the Apostolic See on a case by case basis.”
(Official text in English available at
vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/orientchurch/Istruzione/pdf/istruzione_inglese.pdf)
I tried to explain this in another post, but someone said I was wrong, because he was not aware of the difference between validity and liceity. Well, I think the person complaining should write a letter to the Congregation for Eastern Churches in the Vatican. I’m only repeating what they are saying, as shown above.