Can Catholics attend same-sex marriage ceremonies?

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Same Sex marriage is a delusion. I’m not going to apologize for stating that fact. No matter how hard they pretend, or how much the government supports their delusion, the fact of the matter is that marriage is a reality which same-sex couples do not meet the requirements for.

I don’t expect you to agree with me, but I’m not going to water down my position just because you don’t like to hear it.
So, what counts as a delusion in your book? Are Muslims “delusional” for believing that the definition of marriage can involve one man and four women? Are Lutherans “delusional” for believing that they have the Real Presence in their communion and not just bread and wine?
 
It’s inherently against natural law and biology.

At least Muslim ‘marriage’ acknowledges biology
 
It’s inherently against natural law and biology.

At least Muslim ‘marriage’ acknowledges biology
Natural law is a religious philosophy and doesn’t have anything to do with what takes place in the natural world, biology or science. Homosexual behavior, for example, is quite common in nature not only in our own species, but in many other species as well. It must serve some purpose even if that purpose is not readily apparent. According to the famous biologist, Edward O. Wilson, a professor emeritus in Harvard University’s Department of Organismic and Evolutionary Biology, in his book On Human Nature (pp. 141-143):
The biological significance of sex has been misinterpreted by the theoreticians of Judaism and Christianity…The [Catholic] Church takes its authority from natural-law theory, which is based on the idea that immutable mandates are placed by God in human nature. This theory is in error. The laws that it addresses are biological, were written by natural selection, require little if any enforcement by religious or secular authorities, and have been erroneously interpreted by theologians writing in ignorance of biology. All that we can surmise of human kind’s genetic history argues for a more liberal sexual morality, in which sexual practices are to be regarded first as bonding devices and only second as means for procreation.

Homosexual behavior must be fundamentally deviant, the reasoning goes, because their behavior does not produce children…There is, I wish to suggest, a strong possibility that homosexuality is normal in a biological sense, that it is a distinctive beneficial behavior that evolved as an important element of early human social organization.
 
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Wilson’s explanation is several pages long, but here is part of what he says:
Homosexuality is above all a form of bonding. It is consistent with the greater part of heterosexual behavior as a device that cements relationships.
Other biologists also believe that homosexual behavior in other species serves to strengthen alliances and social ties between same-sex members within a group, flock, herd, etc.
 
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What happens in nature is a terrible basis for morality.
 
What happens in nature is a terrible basis for morality.
Perhaps, but that doesn’t mean that things that happen in nature that seem immoral to some of us are, as Maximilian said, “against…biology”. They might be against the religious philosophy called “natural law” that was mostly developed by theologians in the Catholic Church in the Middle Ages, but that does not mean that they are against biology. Many of these things no doubt developed as part of evolution and serve or served some purpose.
 
When they wrote the catechism, no one had even heard of Gay Marriage.

Even 20 years ago, it was considered a joke.

At that point in time, sure it would have been ok, just a wild joke or a farce, and everyone knew.

Today, its a different story, some people actually think there is legitimacy to the idea.
 
I don’t see how those genes are supposed to be passed on.
 
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Other biologists also believe that homosexual behavior in other species serves to strengthen alliances and social ties between same-sex members within a group, flock, herd, etc.
Assuming this is correct, that homosexuality is normative behavior by whatever standard we can agree on, so what?

The fact still remains that Gay Marriage is a brand new societal institution. When I was a kid, if you mentioned it, people would think you were just being silly.

As far as the Catholic Church, as far as Christianity and the Bible, we’re pretty much all in agreement on this. I was watching the reverend Jerry Falwell on TV several years ago, Falwell was giving a sermon on this. He made the observation that Almighty God put Adam and Eve in the Garden, not Adam and Steve. If you look in the bible, any recognized translation, Rev. Falwell was remarkably spot on correct. Look it up yourself, if you like.
 
I don’t see how those genes are supposed to be passed on.
If some people inherit genes which predispose them to homosexuality and assuming that they don’t have any children, then those genes will be passed down by their brothers and sisters.
 
If some people inherit genes which predispose them to homosexuality and assuming that they don’t have any children, then those genes will be passed down by their brothers and sisters.
But they get passed down at a lower rate during each generation. Homosexuals are significantly less likely to parent children than non-homosexuals. One would expect that a homosexual gene that originated thousands of years ago, would be nearly extinct by this point in history.
 
The fact still remains that Gay Marriage is a brand new societal institution. When I was a kid, if you mentioned it, people would think you were just being silly.
A hundred years ago, many people would also have thought that the idea of a woman or a black man being President to be silly, too.
 
Makes me wonder if society will eventually decide the word marriage is politically incorrect. What will it be replaced with? Commitment Contract?
 
violate the dignity of the human person…
… and make a mockery of God’s Sacrament. It is not a ritual that has it’s sanction from God, but a ritual that receives it’s sanction from the prince of this world who presides over it. The couple do not consecrate each other, but instead are bound to ensure mutual destruction. Recall that no accredited good is created when one is in a state of mortal sin, more so if one makes a direct challenge to God by mocking this precious gift to man.
 
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A hundred years ago, many people would also have thought that the idea of a woman or a black man being President to be silly, too.
I don’t think so, the idea of women leaders like Victoria were well known, as well as the idea of black and other minority presidents and emperors in various nations.

My point is that no one ever even came up with the idea of Gay Marriage before the 90’s. It was a joke.
 
Catechism 8267: Only attend those ceremonies where the participants are free from sin. Otherwise, you’re endorsing their sin. #sarcasm
 
The short answer is, no.

The longer answer is:
So-called same-sex-marriage is an intrinsically immoral farce that attempts to lend validity to acts which violate the dignity of the human person. They are a celebration of deviant sexual behavior, and cannot in good conscious be celebrated by a faithful Catholic.

This isn’t really a popular or pc opinion, but the fact of the matter is that same-sex “marriage” cannot exist.
This is a perfectly valid response. However, what are the ramifications if I disregard this and attend anyway? I tell you right now, this is a deal-breaker. I WILL attend a loved one’s wedding even if it is same-sex.

Am I excommunicated? Am I doomed to Hell? Or Purgatory? If I ask for forgiveness, would it not be granted as I would again attend a same-sex wedding?
And what if I WOULD attend one but just, by coincidence, have never been asked? I’m just lucky and get to go to Heaven, while my buddy that DID get invited goes to Hell?
 
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