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I think I am still in love with my second cousin. She is soooooo beutiful!!! Model type.They can, but should they?
I think I am still in love with my second cousin. She is soooooo beutiful!!! Model type.They can, but should they?
I do love my cousin. Well, I mean I ished I could marry her. BUT, well, she is dating someone.It has been an interesting read over the last few days concerning this topic. Some responses have been amusing whilst others have been more enlightening. I would like to thank this person for their response in appreciating that yes this a real question and one that reflects a real situation of genuine love between two cousins who have only recently met and are approaching 40. You may even call it accidental love and one that that has developed with a considerable level of anxiety attached to it as both tried to come to terms with the fact considering the relationship tie and what the legal and religous guidelines were concerning such a relationship, let alone the social implication! At the end of the day it is not incest, it is not illegal and is also something that will be accepted by the catholic church if marriage should ever be considered whether it is inside or outside of the church as well. I personally was interested to know and am comfortable with where it sits from both these angles.
I can also appreciate some of the other comments and the black humour attached to others. Thanks for the laugh! There will always be more than one view of any topic however at the end of the day these two people are very much in love and do not doubt for one moment that they have met their life match.
Thanks again to this particular person for their much valued comments.
Only in Mississippi, Arkansas, Louisiana and Tennessee.Can anyone help out here?
Firstly is it allowed?
Secondly are there allowances if the answer is no such as age of people (40) and that they wouldnt be having children??
Thanks
Curious
If you’re attempting humor, your should make it obvious so people don’t take your misinformation for fact.Only in Mississippi, Arkansas, Louisiana and Tennessee.
Really… so than is ok for a brother and sister to marry. What about grown men and underaged girls (or boys)?I’m sorry… blah blah blah blah… I’m not into any of my family members BUT… in my mind… and I dont care who disagrees… really, who has the right, law or not, to tell someone who they can and cant love, who they can and can’t marry??? really?? I think it is rediculous to have to follow such rediculous rules like that? Love should not have to be controlled… you cant control your heart in that manner.
No one can tell you who to love and not to love…
Yes, you may have feelings of love for anyone you wish, but we have laws for good reason that tell you whether or not you can expect to have your love acknowledged and supported by society. What protects a young girl from being taken as a wife by an adult man? Certainly even very young girls can be tricked and seduced into thinking marriage to an older man is a good thing. Nothing protects them from such a situation other than the law.I’m sorry… blah blah blah blah… I’m not into any of my family members BUT… in my mind… and I dont care who disagrees… really, who has the right, law or not, to tell someone who they can and cant love, who they can and can’t marry??? really?? I think it is rediculous to have to follow such rediculous rules like that? Love should not have to be controlled… you cant control your heart in that manner. whether you are of religion or not, whether you are straight or gay… who says whats right and wrong??? things happen for a reason… if everything was suppose to happen in such a strict way then they natuarally would. If you love your cousin then marry… whether it is “legally” documented or not… when it comes down to it… marriage is in the heart, not on paper…
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Its a choice only you can make for yourself…
No one can tell you who to love and not to love…