Spockrates,
This subject could show some of the paradigm differences between the EO and RC, imo. The EO place a heavy emphasis on the idea of “Theosis”. For example, the EO commune infants. The Eucharist in the east is looked upon as “transformative”, if that is even a real word. I am not saying it is not in the RC, I am just stating an emphasis of the EO.
Code:
Here is a paraphrase (an "account") of that mercy you asked about as I remember it. A person in hell is visited by a saint or angel (i believe at the request and possibly accompanied by a devout Christian). The "damned" person ask for an apple (or something in their torment). It is provided. Immediately, all of the other people in hell start trying to get her/his apple. The recipient exclaims, "it's mine!" The "mercy" is lost. What if she/he would have given the "mercy/blessing" to another that asked for it? Could they even possibly do so?
“Abandon hope all ye who enter here”, Dante penned for the “welcome” to hell. Many literary critics agree that Dante was expressing that one entered hell voluntarily. Yes, it is not a theological source, I know, but still.
No hope, or hope in one’s self, cuts one off from mercy. How can mercy be extended or accepted in these situations?