Seems to me that even Thomas Merton had a rocky road to the prieshood. Wasn’t he rejected by a couple of monasteries? He certainly seemed to have a vocation. I will have to re-read 7 Story Mountain
As I said before, just because one bishop or religious superior (or even more than one) rejects a candidate, that does not mean that they do not have a vocation. What it does mean is that they do not have a vocation to serve in that diocese under that bishop or a vocation to that religious institute under that religious superior.
They may go on to be called to religious life and/or the priesthood at a later date.
But we must keep in mind that it is the Church that does the calling. The Church recognizes the vocation of the man in question. If the Church does not Call then no calling, by definition, exists. One can not have a call without being called.
All this misinformation that is being provided leads to an unrealistic view that a man may have a calling that is not actualized. No one can be sure of a calling until the Church calls (again this is by definition). It is also unhealthy as it creates an opposition and may lead someone who feels they have a calling but the Church does not call them. They can (and some do) run around saying that they have a calling and eventually leave the Church over it.
It is important to remember that God does not call for the impossible. God does not call a man to a place where he can not serve. God would not call a man to serve in a diocese under a bishop who refuses to ordain that man.
I think I have gone as far as one could be expected to go on this topic.
If anyone has a question as to what I have said please feel free to ask about it but please do quote the post that you are asking about. Other than that I feel I am now
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I will pray for you, please pray for me.