Ordinarily, there would be nothing wrong with a Catholic attending a Protestant baby dedication. In your case though, in which your sister is a former Catholic who is now raising her son outside of the Church, I cannot recommend attending this particular dedication on the grounds that it could demonstrate approval for your sister’s rejection of her Catholic faith.
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