Certainly not objecting to prostration in prayer or any of that. The Coptic Church I have been looking into for quite some time is very big on that. My position is more that there are certain practices which are appropriate to YOUR religion and certain practices that are not. Just as I would not prostrate in a Latin church during Mass (I regularly did so in prayer before an icon of the Theotokos at the local Latin church where I used to live in Oregon, but this was not during services), I would likewise not be breaking another religion’s fast to begin with. I remember having this very conversation with an Islamically-inclined Catholic on this board some years ago who subsequently became Muslim and came back to lecture us all on how much better it is to be a Muslim. I didn’t buy his “I’m fasting in solidarity with them, not in fulfillment of their religion” argument then, and I wouldn’t buy it from you if you were going there to break their fast (if they are inviting you as a gesture of good will, that’s another matter because it doesn’t require you to observe their fasting; it need be no different than any other free meal). Ditto the “praying five times during Ramadan” thing you mentioned earlier – it’s never a bad idea to pray, but I must wonder why you would pray according to their parameters in observance or honor of their holiday. It’s not your religion, just like it would be inappropriate in both your and their tradition if your Muslim friends were to celebrate Easter. Again, this is not out of hatred for Muslims or you for wanting to join them in the best of intentions, it’s just not something I think is appropriate. As I told the Catholic-turned-Muslim poster, do not be attracted to the supposed piety of Islamic traditions when your own are much better. Learn those, practice those, and be an example of Christian holiness to the other religions, as well as your brethren in your own faith. There is nothing in Islam that is appropriate for a Christian to partake in, only some external similarities that are dwarfed by authentic Christian prayer and asceticism.
first I am not ever going to convert to Islam because Mohammed teaches too many things against Christian in particular not offering peace etc. so please do not compare me to that person.
Do you go to these dinners because you are invited out of friendship, or because you observe the Islamic fasts? There may be some legitimate evangelical use for such observances in very specific circumstances (see, for instance, Dr. Nabil Jabbour’s account of fasting alongside Muslims in Egypt to serve as an example to them in his The Cresecent Through the Eyes of the Cross), but this is not license to partake in their fasts/feasts on religious grounds out of any supposed commonality between the communities. If I remember you correctly and have not confused you with someone else, you are aware of Eastern traditions so you no doubt know that Christians do not fast in the way that Muslims do, either in intention or in practice. Let’s keep it that way, is all I’m saying. As somebody who is not God supposedly said to Muhammad in the Qur’an, to you your way and to me mine. Even a stopped clock is right twice a day…