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Helen31a
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I got married back in 1990. I thought i had the perfect marriage 4 beautiful children etc… I counted myself very lucky. Then about 14 years ago I discovered my husband was on a dating site. I forgave him, he told me it was my fault, the children were taking up so much of my time, we had 2 toddlers. Then about 3 years later i found out he was trying to meet a girl in a hotel for a night. Again my fault not making enough effort for him. 2012 came around and i found he had had an affair…my fault. I did throw him out and he took an apartment but I thought we were working to fix our marriage. He wanted to keep the apartment as a work base. As it turned out he was taking women to dinner, clubs etc…but the biggest shock was yet to come, he was a cross dresser. I got my decree nisi through but can’t get full divorce as won’t supply his financial details. Now it’s come to light that he wants to transition to become a woman. I don’t where I stand with an annulment. I don’t even know if I should.