Can I use a barrier for medical reasons?

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By the way–what do you think happens to the baby in the case of a tubal pregnancy where the entire tube is removed as once was the only option–and if such a situation were discovered prior to the tube rupturing and the mother’s death? Do you think they can put the embryo in saline until it’s old enough to survive or do you realize that the baby will also die with the removal of the tube? With methotrexate, the woman will be able to save the tube rather than have it removed–thus increasing her chances for future pregnancies. See what I mean?
You seem not to understand that abortion is wrong not because the baby dies bu because someone is killing the baby. A woman who miscarries and a woman who procures and abortion each have the same result, but in one case, a baby has been deliberately targeted for death and in the other, a natural process occurred.
 
  1. Is NFP more effective than condoms at avoiding pregnancy?
  2. Not to fight starsmother’s battles, but I don’t think she’s the one doing the prescribing.
NFP teaches a woman to chart her fertility and is rooted in science. If you are in an infertile phase of your cycle, there isn’t an egg to be fertilized. Pregnancy is avoided.

With a condom, although it is a barrier, you still could have an egg ready to be fertilized. Pregnancy may be possible.

I don’t understand how a condom can make a safe day safer if there isn’t an egg to be fertilized.
 
  1. Is NFP more effective than condoms at avoiding pregnancy?
Yes, it is more effective. I couldn’t imagine, if I really wanted to avoid pregnancy and if I had no problem with ABC, relying on condoms. :rolleyes:
  1. Not to fight starsmother’s battles, but I don’t think she’s the one doing the prescribing.
I wasn’t sure either. But here she states that she is. And indicates that the patient would return to her. 🤷
**I would never put a woman on methotrexate **in the first place–knowing what can happen-- without being certain she wasn’t going to come back to me accidentally pregnant. Most providers wouldn’t do so either. That’s a really good way to get yourself sued!
She says in post #5:

I think you should absolutely speak to your priest–but I do know as a Catholic health care provider, that dispensations to allow condom use have been granted in a number of cases–even in such cases as where where one of the parties is HIV positive and thus unprotected intercourse could result in the other party being exposed to a nearly fatal illness.
RA isn’t a life threatening or fatal illness. And condoms don’t prevent RA.
 
Hmm well thanks y’all. I have left a msg for my priest to call which I think I should have done in the first place.
 
No, I actually do know what I’m talking about…
I am sure your medical knowledge is sound, but I am perplexed that you say Catholic hospitals would use an abortive procedure to end an ectopic pregnancy. It is well established Catholic teaching that “attacking” the child is not ever permitted. The mother can receive treatment (eg. remove tube) even in the knowledge that said treatment will end the child’s life, but the child cannot be attacked.

As for condoms, there are no exceptional circumstances wherein it’s “ok”. The only acceptable means to delay pregnancy (even indefinitely) is to abstain from sex, either periodically, or completely if for some reason fertility can’t be determined. No priest can morally authorise a couple to use artificial birth control, so again I am perplexed that you say this happens.

I understand you, in your medical work, may have participated in medical treatment that, unknown to you, was/is contrary to Catholic teaching. While you have no culpability for what you did not know was wrong, I hope you will study the matter further, and re-evaluate your position.
 
that you say Catholic hospitals would use an abortive procedure to end an ectopic pregnancy. It is well established Catholic teaching that “attacking” the child is not ever permitted.
This is where it would be helpful to have executive staff from Catholic hospitals comment. I’m sure they’re well aware of what they’re doing and have had their folks do the research.
 
You have no idea. :bighanky:
Please talk to your husband about this.

I DO have an idea of what you are going through. As I said, I have Lupus and I also take Methotrexate. (20mg) And Plaquenil. And another drug that I can’t take and get pregnant.

You need to trust God, yourself and you need the support of your husband.

It can work. It really can.
 
Please talk to your husband about this.

I DO have an idea of what you are going through. As I said, I have Lupus and I also take Methotrexate. (20mg) And Plaquenil. And another drug that I can’t take and get pregnant.

You need to trust God, yourself and you need the support of your husband.

It can work. It really can.
My husband is on board with NFP. I’ve been doing the Creighton Model since March. I’m just really scared of getting pregnant with a baby that will suffer. I have an appointment with my GYN and a call into my priest. I’ll try to find an answer somewhere in there.
 
There is no need to have such fears. Simply go to a healing mass and have faith, I know many people who have been healed through such ministries. And don’t forget to repent of sins before receiving Christ in the Eucharist.
James 5:14-15

Is anyone among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the church, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer of faith will save the one who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. And if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven
1 Corinthians 11:26-34

Whoever, therefore, eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of profaning the body and blood of the Lord. Let a man examine himself, and so eat of the bread and drink of the cup. For any one who eats and drinks without discerning the body eats and drinks judgment upon himself. That is why many of you are weak and ill, and some have died

Always act with faith! And may the Healing mercy of the Lord be upon you!
 
If I were you and my doctor suggested I get an abortion, I’d dump him so darn fast after giving him a few choice words. Doctors recommending that you kill your unborn baby is no doctor! I know that was not the point of this thread or your question, but it jumped out at me, and that just really makes me furious when docs make such horrible suggestions. They outta lose their licenses and be thrown out on their butts. :mad:
 
I am sure your medical knowledge is sound, but I am perplexed that you say Catholic hospitals would use an abortive procedure to end an ectopic pregnancy. It is well established Catholic teaching that “attacking” the child is not ever permitted. The mother can receive treatment (eg. remove tube) even in the knowledge that said treatment will end the child’s life, but the child cannot be attacked.
I first stress here that I’m 100% anti-abortion/prolife and was even a paid up member of ‘right to life’ for many years in my 20’s. I would defer to the official Catholic bio-ethics stance of course, but is the procedure that Starrsmother has described here,technically ‘killing the baby’ or is it ‘clearing the fallopian tube of a fatal blockage’ even though the foreseen outcome is the death of the person. I say this as in palliative care, a foreseen fatal dose of morphine is delivered directly into the body of a patient but even that direct action is not called euthanasia/killing the person. It is called pain relief. Could that be equated with this circumstance?
 
but is the procedure that Starrsmother has described here,technically ‘killing the baby’ or is it ‘clearing the fallopian tube of a fatal blockage’ even though the foreseen outcome is the death of the person.
The Church has given guidance here, and it is a direct abortion.
Could that be equated with this circumstance?
No, it is not pain relief. It is a chemical that actually kills the baby.
 
My husband is on board with NFP. I’ve been doing the Creighton Model since March. I’m just really scared of getting pregnant with a baby that will suffer. I have an appointment with my GYN and a call into my priest. I’ll try to find an answer somewhere in there.
I can suggest Marquette Model which combines Creighton with a fertility monitor. That may give you more peace of mind.
 
My husband is on board with NFP. I’ve been doing the Creighton Model since March. I’m just really scared of getting pregnant with a baby that will suffer. I have an appointment with my GYN and a call into my priest. I’ll try to find an answer somewhere in there.
You already have your answer.

Artificial birth control is an intrinsic evil.

There is no dispensation that would allow you to use birth control.

Now, you might find a priest that will tell you that it is okay. You might have to shop around to find a priest to tell you that. But I am sure there are priests out there that will.

But you know better.
 
I first stress here that I’m 100% anti-abortion/prolife and was even a paid up member of ‘right to life’ for many years in my 20’s. I would defer to the official Catholic bio-ethics stance of course, but is the procedure that Starrsmother has described here,technically ‘killing the baby’ or is it ‘clearing the fallopian tube of a fatal blockage’ even though the foreseen outcome is the death of the person. I say this as in palliative care, a foreseen fatal dose of morphine is delivered directly into the body of a patient but even that direct action is not called euthanasia/killing the person. It is called pain relief. Could that be equated with this circumstance?
Hi LongingSoul, the procedure is technically killing the baby first, then clearing the Fallopian tube of a fatal blockade after. On the morphine dosage, It can become euthanasia if the dose is known to be lethal or will shorten someone’s life. It can get away from the definition of euthanasia by using the pain relief aspect, but it is just the dictionary definition. Fr pain relief, the dosage should be kept low enough not to shorten someone’s life. How this will help the faith of the persons involved must be considered. We have a blessed who chose not to receive morphine while she had cancer of the bones. It is one of the reasons why she was beatified. Her name is Blessed Chiara Luce.
 
Hmm well thanks y’all. I have left a msg for my priest to call which I think I should have done in the first place.
Thanks TxDeeDee, Remember that God loves you. He loves you very much, and He wants you t be with Him in every step of the way. The choices we make in being with Him are often more difficult and scary than other choices. It isn’t about which is more effective, or which one is simply allowed or not allowed by someone’s rules. It is about being with Jesus in every step of the way. I pray that you find peace of mind.
 
I first stress here that I’m 100% anti-abortion/prolife and was even a paid up member of ‘right to life’ for many years in my 20’s. I would defer to the official Catholic bio-ethics stance of course, but is the procedure that Starrsmother has described here,technically ‘killing the baby’ or is it ‘clearing the fallopian tube of a fatal blockage’ even though the foreseen outcome is the death of the person. I say this as in palliative care, a foreseen fatal dose of morphine is delivered directly into the body of a patient but even that direct action is not called euthanasia/killing the person. It is called pain relief. Could that be equated with this circumstance?
Not at all. We must relieve pain of the dying as needed, lest the person who is dying fall into despair at the last moments of life. So it is all right to give someone pain relief, even knowing that the dose may also, as an unintended side effect, hasten death.

But the action of giving a pain reliever is a different action than giving a drug which will kill.
 
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