How do you explain a baptized Catholics who do not believe? Are they born of the spirit?
Mark 16:16 "He who has believed and has been baptized shall be saved; but he who has disbelieved shall be condemned.
From just Mark 16:16 and my understanding of the Catholic mindset, those who are baptized and hold the heretical view of baptism being not a Sacrament even though they are *properly *taught as such are bringing judgment to themselves. As a Sacrament, baptism, like other covenant oaths brings both a “curse” and a “promise”, that of rejection of or acceptance of the supernatural life. I refer back to Romans chapter 1-3 for my understanding.
Those who are taught incorrect doctrine have no intention of disbelief or heretical are like those without the law. If they can live by the law without knowing the law nor understanding the law, as in living in a way that is open to the goodness of the Holy Spirit, then they will be judged not by the law, but by what is in their hearts.
But if this is not infallibly defined as a dogma, then why could it not be allowed under the theory of nuanced development of teaching?
Because it is part of Tradition. Yeah I do see what you mean about people taking gray areas one way or another. But I think that the long Tradition of the Church does clear up most people’s impression of what is gray area and what is not. While I have no authority, I think that most would recognize and understand that the Church always valued women and would not have denied women the priesthood *unless *the Church has deemed it an impossibility. Maybe some priests have been bigots, maybe some laity has assumed the wrong understand, and maybe some women feel that they have the right qualities besides their gender for the role. These individuals do not make the tradition, it was passed down in non-verbal form by the Apostles in their selection of ministers.
Even when there was a need for baptism ministers for women in their society, the Apostles delegated such ministers however they never practiced any of the Sacraments reserved for the ministerial priesthood. They had ample opportunity to. They were not afraid of being rebuked by the laity because they have at countless times including the issues of Gentiles being baptized and the dietary laws.
Personally I am under the impression that many men would become great priests and some even have the deep desire, but they know in their hearts that God called them to live a single or married life outside of the priesthood.
These men humble themselves and submit to God’s call. Maybe they are not vocal enough for everyone to hear, but they sacrifice in silence and God who hears in silence will reward them (Ash Wednesday readings). Women who feel they would like to serve, if they trust in the Lord and His promises they should do the same. In fact, offering up their silence suffering would be the logical choice if they believe their calling is true. By offering it up for the renewal and healthy changes of the Church, if their calling is true, then other women would have the opportunity. If this is really God’s Church, and it is

, then their prayers and sacrifice would be pleasing to God and the Church will listen to the truth that God speaks.
Oh really? According to the backcover:
“This comprehensive catechism contains the constant, authentic doctrine and moral teaching of the Catholic Faith”
Do you say that they have been misleading us?
Note that the text says “contains” but does not say that it is “contains only” hehe. I’m sure there are plenty of text in the book that are not “authentic doctrine and moral teaching of the Church” including some questions where the answer is “No.” Those particular questions and text, you would recognize as not being authentic teaching, so you already know the answer to your question: No it is not misleading – someone is just reading it without the wholeness of the text considered.
But it includes the idea that limbo is universally taught everywhere before Vatican II, whereas after Vatican II, it is OK to deny limbo?
Is limbo universally taught? I mentioned early on in this tread that I was never taught limbo nor never heard of limbo till I went to college. This is because I had to leave my orthodox Vietnamese parish to go to college

. Maybe I was still not properly catechized even though we had very holy nuns and a priest that have 30-45 minute homilies including catechism and life advice relevant to the parishioners. Or maybe the more likely answer is that I was not taught this because it was not clearly defined as doctrine.