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Thank you for sharing these thoughts. They do help me understand your position. I know there are many more posters here much better informed than I who will give you a better response.I understand the need to make this argument, but I disagree with it’s conclusion. I’m glad that I understand it better now, though.
You have to understand, every other Church teaching I have tried to learn more about because of questions I have had a “ringing of truth” to it that gets louder and louder the more I hear it. This teaching, instead of the above, starts looking more and more like a game of verbal Twister. Why is it that humans can’t use their heads (i.e., technology) with regards to their own fertility?
I guess I keep asking that question because I don’t accept the explicit formula “(married couple+sex)-procreation=sin”. It puts too much emphasis on our animal nature (since humans use sex to procreate humans can ONLY use sex to procreate). I know, I know, infertile couples can have sex, you can use NFP, it increases the marital bond, etc., etc. This is where the “twister” analogy comes in for me.
The thing is that I don’t think most Catholics are familiar with the “open to life” argument beyond the “sinfullness” of contraceptives, as evidenced by the fact that most of the families in the two parishes here in town have 2 children, more rarely 3, and almost never more. I think that making contraceptive use a “sin” distracts from the open to life arguments BECAUSE it makes no sense, and so people don’t go beyond it, they just reject it wholy.
So I don’t think I’ve got much more to say on this, except that I will continue to pray for enlightenment; either for myself if that is where it is needed, or for our Church. I leave that to God.
I can only offer this. Either Christ founded one Church that He speaks through infallibly to guide each of us to salvation, or the entire enterprise is a shame. All of it would be false.
I think this particular teaching may be known and accepted on many levels, but the first one I thought of is this:
Who should I follow? If you tell me not the Church in this case then I respectfully ask why would Christ fool the teachers he left and let us think truth may contradict truth?No member of the faithful could possibly deny that the Church is competent in her magisterium to interpret the natural moral law. It is in fact indisputable, as Our predecessors have many times declared, (l) that Jesus Christ, when He communicated His divine power to Peter and the other Apostles and sent them to teach all nations His commandments, (2) constituted them as the authentic guardians and interpreters of the whole moral law, not only, that is, of the law of the Gospel but also of the natural law. For the natural law, too, declares the will of God, and its faithful observance is necessary for men’s eternal salvation. (3)
Humanae Vitae