magdelaine:
This conversation has been interesting and I’ve learned a lot. I know I’m not the only one who feels this way. For the record, I find myself in agreement with this:
source:
innerexplorations.com/catchtheomor/solution.htm
The glaring flaw in your quoted paragraph is evident in the very first sentence. The Church has never, will never Praise God hold it’s lay members accountable in a way that forces them to decide by popular vote what is moral and what is not.
This is the only mistake made in preparing the issuance of Humanae Vitae. They formed this huge committee to give married couples and scholars and doctors and other joe-schmoes a chance to put in their two cents. Because this committee determined that contraception should be allowed, many people assumed and continued to assume that that is what Humanae Vitae should have reaffirmed as well.
I agree that a change needs to take place involving the entire church, but that change must involve each and every member gaining an understanding of why the church teaches what it does, not changing the Church’s understanding and teaching on sexuality and marriage.
Let me quickly provide an analogy (that you would find while reading Christopher West) to contracepted sex that could easily involve condoms, not just abortifacient methods. This analogy also helps explain how periodic abstinence in NFP differs from artificial birth control.
Our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit. In particular, a woman’s body is sacred because it is the location where God chooses to create new life. God honored all women by creating Jesus as God and Man within the womb of a woman. Thus, the church in this analogy is the woman’s body.
Three men walk past a church. The first has other things going on, in other words *has a serious/just reason to avoid * going into the church. He walks past. The next man goes in wanting enjoy the stained glass and the architecture, but really has no interest in the ‘church’ aspect of it, so spits in the holy water on his way out. He has *used the temple for his own pleasure while disrespecting it * and God. The third man goes in for the specific purpose of prayer. Sometimes he is blessed in a tangible way by this devotion, and other times he receives only grace.
The first man illustrates the propriety of NFP. The second man illustrates the impropriety of practicing contraception by using the woman’s body for one benefit (pleasure) while rejecting the other (procreation). The third is an example of the richness of celebrating the marital union with sex both when fertile and when infertile.