I’ll give these a shot. I have a feeling I have a little bit differing perspective than Annie, though I’m not going to say that you should listen to me and not her. You should visit several priests and listen to THEM.
Accept Israel as the God given homeland of the jews
Rome recognizes both Israel and Palestine. Whether or not this encroaches on the idea that Israel is the given homeland of the Jews is probably in the eye of the beholder, but I have never heard any Catholic priest say that we Catholics must accept the behaviors and rationalizations of the modern state of Israel on Biblical or other grounds. I personally don’t support Israel, and I have talked to multiple priests about this issue, and none told me I was any less a Catholic for my personal convictions, however unpopular they may be.
Pray to any saint whatever, including Mary
The rosary contains what could be construed as a prayer to Mary (the “Hail Mary”), so in order to say the rosary properly you would need to say that. To the extent that you may be told to say X number of rosaries as penitence for your sins, choosing to not pray them as a matter of principle is unacceptable. I could imagine that if you have a problem with the Hail Mary (and I myself had trouble understanding why we say it until well into RCIA), you should be able to explain whatever problem you are having to your priest and/or RCIA leader. The Church recognizes that our past can present certain obstacles to correctly forming our consciences to Church doctrine. But, if you are serious about being Catholic, you will hungrily seek answers, and accept that your prejudices are nothing in the face of the truth of Christ’s Church.
Own or ever intend to own, or have on display in your home, or about your person, a statue, icon, cross, crucifix, picture, medal, scapula or anything else like that
I myself own only one small icon (of Sts. Cyril and Methodius, given to me at my confirmation). I do not own a cross because the terms of my lease agreement at this apartment forbid me from nailing anything to the walls, and I feel that it would be very disrespectful to simply leave a cross lying on a table, on a nightstand, or in a drawer somewhere. If I am required to display a cross in my home, this is news to me. I don’t see how this could be the case, since I’m surely not the only Catholic who rents.
I do intend to display one as soon as I can, though. The cross is a reminder of my faith as surely as any of the Creeds are.
Would it be sufficient to simply:
Partake of the Eucharist.
I am not sure how to respond to this, since Catholicism does not work like a checklist. Surely there are Catholics who show up to Mass even if they cannot take the Eucharist, and many who also cannot go to Mass on Sunday due to inflexible work schedules or other limitations. While everything that you have mentioned above
is an integral part of being a Catholic, if it were simple a matter of these 4 things and not any of the associated parts of Catholic life, there would be very little involved in being Catholic outside of ritual. This is not the case. Catholicism is the way by which we live our commitment to Christ in all ways, all the time, always.
I pray that I am just as Catholic in between confessions as I am during them.
May God guide you in all of your journeys.