Can't become a cloistered nun... now what?

[canadienne]

This is what I was thinking too. Talk to them and see what happens.

Also, would you consider a different type of community - to be a sister? Perhaps such a life would be less demanding physically, yet you would still be in a religious community. Maybe this is something to consider.

Good luck and God bless.

Yes I have considered a congregation near me. I’ve spent quite a bit of time there and really respect those sisters. But they don’t have the same prayer life as the Carmelites… I long for the stillness, the quiet, the solitude.

If I remember correctly you must be 35 years old or older to begin the process of applying to be a Consecrated Virgin. You will be asked to write an autobiography and submit that for review to the individuals considering your case.

35? Really? I have never heard that before. Perhaps that is just for a particular diocese or something. I remember seeing videos of two different young women being consecrated as virgins, they don’t look like they are a day over 25. Perhaps they are in their late twenties and just look younger, but 35 or over? No way.

 

[Soeur_de_Croix]

Have you considered the Visitation nuns? Leonie (St Therese’s sister) was not fit enough for Carmel, but she did end up being able to stay in the Visitation after several attempts. It might be worth considering. They are also cloistered and prayerful.

 

[toastmachines]

I too, second the Visitandines. Though my health is fine, I will hopefully be going to Mobile soon to spend some time with them in discernment. Prayers for you that you may have your wish! Don’t give up hope!

 

[Poor_Clare_tobe]

Perhaps you can find a less strict order of nuns? One whose life style won’t lead to an earlier death? There are many different groups of nuns. I’d look there before giving up entirely. If God has placed the desire to become a cloistered nun in your heart, I’m sure He will provide a path to it’s realization.

God bless.

I am not sure the medical condition you have, but I would suggest you speak to your spiritual director and see what advice you might obtain?

There are less strict cloistered orders that might accept you, as Pietro noted above…again it is difficult to say without knowing your medical situation…(which of course is none of my business) there are Poor Clares, Benedictines and other orders for you to consider. This is where a spiritual director/adviser is very important… They can help you to discern and see if religious life is realistic for your particular situation. Do continue to pray and if they seem to agree you might have a vocation then keep searching. Remember though it is quite common for communities to have basic standards or expectancies for good health, so this factor may tailor what community you look at, above all if you continue your search be upfront as to your medical situation.

Blessings on your search

Sr Debbie OSC

 

[Cloisters]

Carmel – Teresa & John – describe the interior life that all are to strive for. Use them to practice the presence of God (also a book by that name), so you can practice the interior silence you need to hear the still small voice. May the Holy Ghost be your guide.

Blessings,
Cloisters