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On Saturday I was going to go to mass because I am busy on Sunday but I got called by my parents that we were going out for dinner, it was only until they decided to cancel plans that mass was nearly done. Am I in any sin or am I jut being Scrupulous?
 
On Saturday I was going to go to mass because I am busy on Sunday but I got called by my parents that we were going out for dinner, it was only until they decided to cancel plans that mass was nearly done. Am I in any sin or am I jut being Scrupulous?
When you say you are busy on Sunday what does that mean?
You need a justifiable reason not to fulfill your Sunday obligation.

CCC 2185 On Sundays and other holy days of obligation, the faithful are to refrain from engaging in work or activities that hinder the worship owed to God, the joy proper to the Lord’s Day, the performance of the works of mercy, and the appropriate relaxation of mind and body. Family needs or important social service can legitimately excuse from the obligation of Sunday rest. The faithful should see to it that legitimate excuses do not lead to habits prejudicial to religion, family life, and health.
 
Missing Mass is a serious matter. Plans can be delayed or changed if they are interfering with your Sunday obligation. Dinners can be delayed until after Mass or held ahead of time before Mass. Please go to reconciliation as soon as possible.
 
confession is good

however,

talk with your pastor first and see what he says.
 
I, for starters am only a teenager so when I asked my parents if I could stay for mass, they said I had to go on Saturday and the Priest said its alloud. And today or Sunday I have a social service to attend to that my Priest also confirmed. So would It would be alright as thr priest said so.
 
I, for starters am only a teenager so when I asked my parents if I could stay for mass, they said I had to go on Saturday and the Priest said its alloud. And today or Sunday I have a social service to attend to that my Priest also confirmed. So would It would be alright as thr priest said so.
  1. You have the Priest’s “ok”… so don’t stress.
  2. Usually the evening Mass on Saturday is the vigil for Sunday; thus, fulfilling the obligation and it is good to have that confirmed by your priest.
  3. As a teen, you are not fully in control of your life; thus, if you intended to attend Mass, desired to Attend Mass, and miss Mass because your parents prohibited your attendance, then you are not at fault; thus, not in mortal sin. It takes both full knowledge and full consent to commit a mortal sin - and you were/are not in full control of your actions; thus, (from what you have said) most likely, no mortal sin attached to missing this Mass. ( PERSONALLY I would mention this in confession at the next opportunity – but that is just me)
  4. You have the Priest’s “ok”… so don’t stress.
 
I’m glad that you’re asking the question about Mass attendance. I hope that you attend Mass out of a strong desire to serve the Lord and out of love for him.

So many Catholics miss Sunday Mass, already, because of their lack of faith. I’m puzzled about your parents’ missing Mass, too. was it their plan to attend Mass on Sunday?

Since you brought up this whole matter, are you sure it was a good idea to plan activities on sunday, in the first place? It bothers me that schools and teams and other groups deliberately plan events on Sundays. I think Protestant churches do not require church attendance on Sundays, although they may encourage it.

In the Old Testament, there were only three “pilgrimage” feasts that required Jews to go to Jerusalem. each year. And synagogue services were a late development in Judaism, which is not even recorded in the Bible. The Jerusalem temple was small, and mostly off limits to lay people,

So, I have a gap in my knowledge about when sunday Mass attendance became compulsory and even deadly sinful. the same deadly sinfulness was attached to eating red meat on fridays, until that requirement was lifted, sometime after the Second Vatican Council.

Mind you, I’m retired, and I love attending Mass on weekends and during the week. At Mass, we are renewing our acceptance of the covenant with God that Jesus established at the Last Supper. Communion with the Eucharist is “the source and summit” of our Christian life. the Communion is, what 1 Corinthians says, establishes the world-wide unity of our Church. we are united in Christ.

I’m not talking about what happened in the past to you. Others have commented above. about your recent incident. but I strongly urge you from now on, to make an eternal commitment to attend Mass and to receive the Eucharist (in a state of grace). God established the sabbath as a DAY of rest.

I’ve had to work on Sundays and I certainly studied on Sundays when I was in college, and I had to travel a lot on Sundays for work purposes.

quite frankly, I’m disappointed that the Church ONLY requires about an hour of attendance at Mass on sundays. You’d think the Church would have a whole day’s worth of activities, such as Bible study and visiting the sick and helping elderly people with their yard work and such on sundays, to make the whole day about serving God and our neighbor. I live alone, so I didn’t think about things that families could do together on Sundays – and I’m not talking about watching tv.

There are two listing of the ten commandments in the bible, one in Exodus and one in Deuteronomy – and they’re different. In one version, we’re supposed to “remember” the Sabbath; in the other, we’re supposed to “observe” the Sabbath. Jewish scholars agonized over these two versions – what’t the difference? what was an observant Jew to do, to obey these commandments?

eventually they concluded that “Observing” the Sabbath had to do with the positive aspects of the Sabbath, and that “remembering” meant the negative aspects. Observing meant what they should DO on the sabbath and remembering meant what they should NOT DO on the sabbath.

even if the catholic church [note: my shift key isn’t working on my keyboard] does not MANDATE what to do and what not to do on sundays, I think it is a good practice for individuals to go beyond the minimum of what the church requires, and try to stick to a list of the do’s and don’ts on sundays.
 
A teen should not be answering so many personal questions. I’ve had teens, one still is. I have told them to be careful about getting and answering too many questions like this online.
 
A teen should not be answering so many personal questions. I’ve had teens, one still is. I have told them to be careful about getting and answering too many questions like this online.
I agree that teens and children need to be very circumspect with their personal information; however, in this case, HT hasn’t really answered anything that could be harmful IRL (of course, I haven’t pulled up the personal profile either) No personal contact info, etc… in the post. AMF: Until HT supplied the information about being a Teen, I had placed the age at young adult to early twenty’s

It is however a good reminder about keeping some information under-wraps.👍
 
A teen should not be answering so many personal questions. I’ve had teens, one still is. I have told them to be careful about getting and answering too many questions like this online.
I agree but I seem not to get the answers from school, my priest is really my only way of reach but it’s hard to contact him, so I go here for a way to seek answers.
 
No, I didn’t mean the whole thread, but there seemed to be a beginning of others to start asking deepening questions and going on about their details. I wanted to head it off so you, the OP, wouldn’t go doing the same as a teen.
 
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