capital sins?

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I’m a bit confused on the capital sins.

are they always mortal sins?

especially the sin of pride, what does that actually entail? is it wrong to believewe can accomplish things and be ambitious?

and what is considered actual laziness or sloth? procrastination?

any help is appreciated, I’m not sure if I’m actually committing these sins or not or if I’m just being scrupulous
 
It’s your scruples Angell1! 🙂

You are in a loop and need to get a priest to talk this out with. Spending too much time on CAF is going to worsen your problems. Please take care and call your parish priest for a meeting. Tell him you have scruples and if he doesn’t think he can help, then ask him if he knows of one who would be a good fit. I also struggle with scruples and it’s not a battle you can fight on your own. :hug1:
 
I’m a bit confused on the capital sins.

are they always mortal sins?

especially the sin of pride, what does that actually entail? is it wrong to believewe can accomplish things and be ambitious?

and what is considered actual laziness or sloth? procrastination?

any help is appreciated, I’m not sure if I’m actually committing these sins or not or if I’m just being scrupulous
NO.

Pride can be often for the Christian – venial sin. As can laziness.

For scruples - get a regular confessor and follow his direction.

To repost an older post of mine:

And to re post another post on the subject that can give more light:

The term “deadly” --often confuses persons.

Such is simply not the case that deadly sins/capital sins = grave matter .

For example --the chief of them is Pride. Pride yes can be grave matter --like a person says I do not need God. But often in the life of say a Christian it is venial matter (sinning in pride in other ways…)

Anger can be grave matter – like for example --when one is deliberately angry -seeking to say seriously harm someone. Or seriously wounding charity or justice…

But often it is venial in life. One gets a little angry that something did not go the way one wanted…etc.

or take gluttony – individual acts of such by way of intemperance are often* venial* in nature.

Though for example one can have grave matter --for example getting drunk where one looses ones reason…etc.

So no it is not a simple: Deadly sins -Capital sins = grave matter.

(Of course the things against the 6th Commandment - well those are rather serious…there is not light matter in lusting after some person or fornication etc)
 
It’s your scruples Angell1! 🙂

You are in a loop and need to get a priest to talk this out with. Spending too much time on CAF is going to worsen your problems. Please take care and call your parish priest for a meeting. Tell him you have scruples and if he doesn’t think he can help, then ask him if he knows of one who would be a good fit. I also struggle with scruples and it’s not a battle you can fight on your own. :hug1:
I did talk to my pastor a couple days ago in confession, but I think I just rambled and confused him
 
I did talk to my pastor a couple days ago in confession, but I think I just rambled and confused him
Scruples are something that takes a while to sort through. The priest in the confessional is not there for advice, but to hear confessions. He wants to be sure all have time to get their confessions heard l, so it may feel more rushed to you.

Make an appointment outside of confession to talk to a priest. Make sure you ask him if he is comfortable talking through scruples, some aren’t as much. If your priest isn’t comfortable with dealing with scruples ask him to refer you to a priest who is.

You will need a monthly appointment for a while until you get things figured out. 🙂
 
I did talk to my pastor a couple days ago in confession, but I think I just rambled and confused him
Many posters in many threads have told you to talk to your priest about your scrupulosity.
As a poster in this thread has said Confession is not the time to discuss this. Talk to your priest outside Confession as such a discussion will take a long time and will require many occasions.
 
Many posters in many threads have told you to talk to your priest about your scrupulosity.
As a poster in this thread has said Confession is not the time to discuss this. Talk to your priest outside Confession as such a discussion will take a long time and will require many occasions.
The “regular confessor” is the age old practice for such.

Of course yes -for a longer discussion - one can make an appointment for confession* outside of the scheduled time.*

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