Melchior:
It sickens me that this guy, who confirmed me, got to vote for the new Pope. I cannot believe he is not in jail, but is instead in beautiful Rome.
The devastated lives he left behind are numerous. That includes lives ended tragically because of what he did.
Mel
No question he could have and should have done better than he did; that said, the primary perpetrators of the deeds are to blame. In all the rhetoric, all the high emotion, often people forget that. Each of us bears the responsibility of the sins we commit against others. Never mind the “my parents are to blame, my teachers are to blame, my formation master is to blame, my boss is to blame…” Put the blame where it belongs. Why do you think the age old prayer of Mea culpa, mea culpa" rings so true with us all?
And what other sins do you feel this strongly about? Adultery, lying, fornication, gambling, alcoholism, physical abuse, corporate and personal corruption? …they all grieve God, we are all sinners, we all have affected the lives of others and not always in a positive fashion. If Christ forgave Peter who denied Him, and the rest of us “because they know not what they do” – how then can we not while recognizing the sin, seek to be glad that anyone who sins remains within the church, turns from his bad judgments and regains his life in service?
It is not for Catholics to seek to brand the foreheads of other sinners. Best we all stay with our own sackcloth and ashes and rejoice when our brothers and sisters who strayed from the path return to it. Peter denied Christ and was our first pope.
The pain, the betrayal, the innocent priests who suffer because of these devlish deeds are not even possible to measure…the victims grope with a part of their lost innocence for the rest of their lives. What Cardinal Law has been put through personally, professionally and as a Catholic pastor must parallel St. Peter who it was said, had two channels carved deep in his face, from the tears he shed for the rest of his life over his betrayal of the Lord he loved.
We all need to pray for victims, for those who neglected their duty or turned their face the other way – it is a backbreaking burden of guilt and shame to carry every day of their lives and thank God that it rests not on us.
We are all childen of Adam and Eve…thankfully Our Blessed Savior came to let us know that no mattter what we do, how badly we fail, that true contrition, true repentance brings us home again.