I don’t care how others receive and I would never question their belief in the Real Presence.
It’s not about the person receiving, what they believe, who is right or who is wrong. It is about Truth and reverence. Is there one way that is better?
Those vessels on the altar were carefully cleaned before the bread and wine that would become our Lord were placed in them.
Do we ask people to wash their hands before receiving the Eucharist? We ask kids to wash their hands before dinner. After eating. After using the rest room. After playing outside. Do we ask or suggest that people wash their hands before receiving the Eucharist? We clean all of the consecrated vessels—not because we want them to be spiffy but because they are about to contact the most Precious gift we have received.
After a person receives in the hand, does that person then go back to the sacristy to the special sink with a drain directly into the ground so that the precious particles that may remain on the vessels do not join the sewer, and rinse the tiny particles off of the person’s hands into that drain to avoid any possibility of desecrating the Eucharist?
That’s what we do with all of the vessels that held Our Lord. Out of love for the True Presence, precautions are taken.
Did you ever see a mother, after receiving Communion, wipe a child’s nose with a ratty old used tissue she found in the bottom of her purse? Or a boy leave for a potty break? Someone cover their mouth to cough or sneeze?
Why bother with all of the rituals to prevent desecrating the Eucharist with all of the consecrated units that come into contact with our Lord—the ciborium, the chalice, the priest’s hands—only to place it into unpurified (unwashed) and unconsecrated hands?
Do we mean it when we reverently and carefully handle our Lord at the altar?