I had a discussion over the weekend regarding the Fall in the Garden of Eden. Someone tried to say that the “punishment” for original sin was carnal knowledge and that the Church (including Christianity as a whole) teaches that sex is bad. He was saying that women having children was also part of the punishment with regards to this carnal knowledge. He was trying to insinuate that Adam and Eve did not have relations until they were expelled from the Garden because prior to that, there was no carnal knowledge.
Well Jessica, your friend needs to better acquaint himself with the Bible.
Genesis 1: 27-31
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God created man in his image; in the divine image he created him; male and female he created them. 28
God blessed them, saying: "Be fertile and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it. Have dominion over the fish of the sea, the birds of the air, and all the living things that move on the earth." 29 God also said: “See, I give you every seed-bearing plant all over the earth and every tree that has seed-bearing fruit on it to be your food; 30 and to all the animals of the land, all the birds of the air, and all the living creatures that crawl on the ground, I give all the green plants for food.” And so it happened. 31 **God looked at everything he had made, and he found it very good. Evening came, and morning followed–the sixth day. **
Genesis 2: 2-25
22 The LORD God then built up into a woman the rib that he had taken from the man. When he brought her to the man, 23 the man said: “This one, at last, is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; This one shall be called ‘woman,’ for out of ‘her man’ this one has been taken.” 24
That is why a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one body. 25 **The man and his wife were both naked, yet they felt no shame. **
God created Adam and Eve as complementary sexes from the outset and gave the blessing and command to be fruitful and multiply, and he looked upon his creation and declared it good.
The Fall, OTOH, had nothing to do with sex. Regarding the proposition your friend puts foward that childbirth was a consequence of original sin, again they need to brush up on their Bible. The bible does not say that childbirth is a consequence of original sin, but rather the pain women endure in childbirth:
Genesis 3:16
16 To the woman he said: “I will **intensify **the pangs of your childbearing; in pain shall you bring forth children. Yet your urge shall be for your husband, and he shall be your master.”
And the Church does NOT teach sex is bad. It teaches the opposite:
1601 "The matrimonial covenant, by which a man and a woman establish between themselves a partnership of the whole of life, is by its nature ordered toward the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of offspring; this covenant between baptized persons has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a sacrament."84
I. MARRIAGE IN GOD’S PLAN
1602 Sacred Scripture begins with the creation of man and woman in the image and likeness of God and concludes with a vision of "the wedding-feast of the Lamb."85 Scripture speaks throughout of marriage and its “mystery,” its institution and the meaning God has given it, its origin and its end, its various realizations throughout the history of salvation, the difficulties arising from sin and its renewal “in the Lord” in the New Covenant of Christ and the Church.86
Marriage in the order of creation
1603 "The intimate community of life and love which constitutes the married state has been established by the Creator and endowed by him with its own proper laws. . . . God himself is the author of marriage."87 The vocation to marriage is written in the very nature of man and woman as they came from the hand of the Creator. Marriage is not a purely human institution despite the many variations it may have undergone through the centuries in different cultures, social structures, and spiritual attitudes. These differences should not cause us to forget its common and permanent characteristics. Although the dignity of this institution is not transparent everywhere with the same clarity,88 some sense of the greatness of the matrimonial union exists in all cultures. "The well-being of the individual person and of both human and Christian society is closely bound up with the healthy state of conjugal and family life."89
1604 God who created man out of love also calls him to love the fundamental and innate vocation of every human being. For man is created in the image and likeness of God who is himself love.90 Since God created him man and woman, their mutual love becomes an image of the absolute and unfailing love with which God loves man. It is good, very good, in the Creator’s eyes. And this love which God blesses is intended to be fruitful and to be realized in the common work of watching over creation: "And God blessed them, and God said to them: ‘Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth and subdue it.’"91
1605 Holy Scripture affirms that man and woman were created for one another: "It is not good that the man should be alone."92 The woman, “flesh of his flesh,” his equal, his nearest in all things, is given to him by God as a “helpmate”; she thus represents God from whom comes our help.93 "Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother and cleaves to his wife, and they become one flesh."94 The Lord himself shows that this signifies an unbreakable union of their two lives by recalling what the plan of the Creator had been “in the beginning”: "So they are no longer two, but one flesh."95