I see the logic in calling the Virgin Mary “Theotokos” because she indeed is the mother of Christ, who is God - the second person of the Holy Trinity. However, I still have some suspicions about some negative symbolism in
where the Theotokos pronouncement came about.
I don’t think it was a coincidence that the Early Church leaders chose
Ephesus as the place to convene a council to pronounce the Virgin Mary as Theotokos. After all, Ephesus had been home for many centuries to the female goddess Artemis of the ancient Mediterranean world, and calling Mary “Theotokos” served to solidify Christ’s standing as divine (a good thing) while secondarily (not so good, in my opinion) serving to pacify the people of Ephesus and the Mediterranean world who still desired to pay homage to the female divine after all those centuries of their families worshiping Artemis/Diana. After all, they were subjected to a more patriarchal faith in Christianity that had kind of left them “high and dry” in terms of the female divine personage to worship and adore until Mary was pronounced “Mother of God”.
While official Church teaching was and is still that Mary is not divine, it still doesn’t stop some of the faithful from raising her status higher than intended in their devotion, although I firmly believe that all Catholics on CAF that I have interacted with put her in proper context and don’t adore her as a goddess.
In contrast, I acknowledge that most Protestants I know don’t give Mary the honor that she truly deserves. In fact, she is ignored most of the year and barely is mentioned outside of her role in the Christmas story, which is an injustice to her and the sacrifices she made and risks she took to be the mother of our Lord. I realize that is the case since coming to CAF, and I’ve grown to appreciate her more and more and even recite the "Hail Mary’ prayer from time to time and occasionally ask her to pray for me as an intercessor as I would a devout prayer partner here on earth.
By the way, here is the article I read that has some of things that I was mentioning on Mary. I didn’t form my opinion from it, but I saw that the writer was more articulate in writing what I already thought on the subject. I am open to being wrong and that I may have misconceptions about The Virgin Mary like I used to be on some other Catholic dogmas, but if possible I’d like a Catholic to read the article (it’s not terribly long) and tell me where they miss the mark.
My biggest pet peeve question is, “Why did they choose Ephesus of all places to have a council on Mary being pronounced Theotokos out of all the cities in the Roman world, especially in light of Ephesus having been the epicenter of Artemis/DIana worship for centuries, if there is to be no symbolic connection between the two?”