The few times I have seen the cardinal on T.V. I liked him, and thought he was right on. Of course, the fact that we put the word cardinal before his name does not mean he could not be a scoundrel. This is not relevant because whether he is holy or not, he still has authority, which should be taken seriously. And I realize that I have been less than respectful to the cardinal’s office, and I regret that. Despite previous accusation, I am actually not fond of dismissing vatican rules.
However, if you have ever worked for a large corporation, you know that feeling when a rule comes down from the corporate office that makes you feel like those people in the board room are a little disconnected with on what’s going on on the ground. And their rule, which they just think is great is not jiving well with your local employees and customers. So, if you happen to be the manager of the branch, you kinda fudge to get what you need to get done done.
And I think the same thing is happening here. The cardinal has great rules, which he thinks will somehow help us grow in holiness, but many parish priests, particular those in black neighborhoods here in Chicago, believe for one reason or another this will not cut it at their parish. In parishes where it’s important for them to experience that communal aspects of worship, for whatever reason, you will see this type of behavior. I have seen the priest come down, and everybody get out of their pews and walk around to greet each other. And to be honest, I find it a little disrptive

, but I also know how difficult it is to keep an active black parish in South Chicago. There are parishes closing up all over the place here, and if this helps people connect to the parish, then, I think the pastor is right to do what’s right for his parish by allowing them to hold hands.
Of course, you may not care and suggest that they should just leave and become protestant, but I think it’s ashame that you are so indifferent to whether or not people remain in the church. I want these people to stay close to Christ in the eucharist, and I don’t think the cardinal, in his corporate office far away from South Chicago, fully appreciates the impact that his rules have on the ground. You can’t walk into a local baptist church here without a complete stranger hugging you; it’s a touchy feely culture, and I once took someone to a catholic church that I liked, and his first response to me was that everyone seemed really cold. And so, I realized if I was going to get him at all interested, it was going to be in a South Chicago touchy-feely parish.
This is not to say that we need to just let people do whatever. We cannot let people sin so that they might stay in the catholic church, but this is not a sin. It’s a very very small concession for the sake of the people for whom the church exists.
Kendy