You have now introduced the concept of a “marital debt” obligation, which is beyond the scope of sex is only for procreation model. Would you care to reconcile this position shift? They do not appear compatible with one another.
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Church Fathers were aware of the paradox you are pointing out. St. Augustine, “On Marriage and Concupiscence”:
*But in the married, as these things are desirable and praiseworthy, so the others are to be tolerated, that no lapse occur into damnable sins; that is, into fornications and adulteries. To escape this evil, even such embraces of husband and wife as have not procreation for their object, but serve an overbearing concupiscence, are permitted, so far as to be within range of forgiveness, though not prescribed by way of commandment: and the married pair are enjoined not to defraud one the other, lest Satan should tempt them by reason of their incontinence. For thus says the Scripture (“Let the husband render unto the wife her due: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other; except it be with consent for a time, that ye may have leisure for prayer; and then come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.” Now in a case where permission must be given, it cannot by any means be contended that there is not some amount of sin. Since, however, the cohabitation for the purpose of procreating children, which must be admitted to be the proper end of marriage, is not sinful, what is it which the apostle allows to be permissible, but that married persons, when they have not the gift of continence, may require one from the other the due of the flesh - and that not from a wish for procreation, but for the pleasure of concupiscence? This gratification incurs not the imputation of guilt on account of marriage, but receives permission on account of marriage. This, therefore, must be reckoned among the praises of matrimony; that, on its own account, it makes pardonable that which does not essentially appertain to itself. For the nuptial embrace, which subserves the demands of concupiscence, is so effected as not to impede the child-bearing, which is the end and aim of marriage. *
The underlined sentences are dealing with Augustine’s true approach to “marital debt” . Sex without *intent *to procreate is unnatural and sinful, yet in “range of forgiveness”. It’s sinfulness comes from the fact that it is not done with exclusive desire to beget a child.
In the root of the matter, “marital debt” was against the natural law, since the only “natural” reason for sex was procreation. But Augustine claimed such intercourse is *pardoned *by marital bond. Note the italics. Sex without desire for begetting is sinful, but pardonable. It was still expected from a husband and wife to feel remorse, and avoid such relation.
To answer your question “How is marital debt legal, if sex is only for procreation?”- it was not legal, but on the account of marriage, it was considered sort of lesser evil then fornication.
And, just a sidenote- you have to love Augustine’s claim that sex is sinful on the account that marriage is permited. Good things don’t need permission, and allowing something means it is bad.
As for “marital debt”, by which I assume you mean both principals bound by marital contract and are now obligated to have sexual relations, why is this not considered “unitive”?
Indeed, you can say that giving marital debt strengthed pair even in Stoic philosophy. But only in terms of helping and sustaining one’s weakness. Husband was supposed to be grateful to his wife that she had relation with him, and lowered his temptation. But he was not supposed to be grateful for love she showed by intercourse, since sex was not seen as something which can express love.
By reading Ephesians 5: 24-33, it is my understanding these passages advance the position both marriage partners are to “love” one another. Does it not point towards the view marriage is to contain “love” as an intrinsic part of the martial contract?
Marriage was indeed seen as bond of respect and love. But marital act was not seen as means to express that love.
As for his commentary, Origen was providing his remarks on the Gospel of Matthew but you relate his comments to 1 Corinthians. I am uncertain that Origen would be commenting on Matthew solely through the lens of 1 Corinthians passages.
Simply, I wanted to say that Origen didn’t see anything “unitive” (by today’s meaning of the word) in satisfying wife’s desires. He was referring to this as “sustaining one’s weakness” similarly to 1 Corinthians. Woman was not wanting for love, but eager to lust.
Paul would certainly object such radical interpretation of his writings.
It would by my position Origen supports marriage and marital relations as a type of unity. St. Clement spoke of marriage as a cooperative endeavour, one that promotes a form of harmony. Origen, who was a disciple of Clement, sees marriage containing “a mutual giving” within it. (…)
This could be more then a match to prove. Origen would never see sexual intercourse something that can provide well-being of another, unless for reasons mentioned regarding marital debt.
After all, he was a student of Clement, and Clement has- more then once- stated that sex is to be done only with intent of procreation in order to be moral act.