Catholic counseling services

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Has anyone tried it? The main issue I deal with sin and humanity. Sometimes I feel annoyed by my family. Some would say that’s sinful. Sometimes religious people feel uptight and self righteous. No offense. How dare I be angry with my mother? I have the most difficulty accepting, processing and dealing/expressing my feelings because I shouldn’t be so easily offended, hurt, etc. I don’t know what to do with anger because it’s sinful to be angry.
 
A trained counselor worth his/her salt in professionalism, Catholic or not, won’t judge you, or get uptight or self-righteous. Feelings are not a sin. Even Christ felt anger. Sin is what happens when we do the wrong thing_ with those feelings. A therapist will help you know how to identify and process these feelings in a positive, productive way. Cognitive-behavioral approaches are my personal favorite. We found a children’s and marriage/family therapist who is not only Catholic but runs her office out of a local parish. She’s been a godsend.

Don’t be afraid to shop around a little, and don’t give up if you have to. I’ll pray that you find the right person. Look for a Catholic one, but pursue counseling even if you can’t find one in your area. http://www.catholictherapists.com/
 
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Feelings are just that, feelings. I don’t believe there is any sin in being angry. Your behavior is what matters.

Being fully aware of your feelings is alwaays beneficial. I would suggest if you feel like you aren’t, and you would like to be, than meeting with a therapist to explore this issue is your best bet. If anyone tells that you should “feel” guilty because of your “feelings”, run for the door. Isn’t that a little silly? A feeling is required because of another feeling?

I commend you for wanting to have a better understanding of your feelings. Good for you.
 
You worry far too much about what others think All that matter is what we believe God thinks.
Any good priest can guide you. If you prefer to not already know the priest, call the Chancery. They have an extensive list of Catholic counselors.
I’m hoping you are serious about this.
 
Perhaps some catechism on sins should be helpful for you. Like most people, you are a normal person.

God bless.
 
I don’t think anyone is saying that is a sin. But self-consciousness doesn’t seem to be at play in your posts.
I think pc is trying to help you though.
 
It can feel as though unless you’re perfect or always right, you don’t deserve to be happy. Making mistakes is a scary part of living
 
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Yeah, but it doesn’t have to be.
That’s the piece you seem to be missing. It’s not “too bad, so sad” that the human condition. We all have the capability of ding better at every moment of our lives.
 
It’s not easy being honest and going to counseling. It’s an incredibly vulnerable position. Having someone see and point out all your weaknesses
 
Yeah. That’s not what they do in counseling.
They let YOU talk it out and they ask questions:
So why do you think that?
Who said this to you?
Why are you holding on to this?

It’s for you to work out with their guidance. They don’t tell you to do anything.
They help you figure it out.
You seem to tell a lot about “other people”.

You might truly enjoy counseling.
They will come right out and tell you that you are the only person who change your own life.
 
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