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stpurl
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I’m not sure what you’re trying to say, but IF you are trying to say that the Church allows divorce for ‘cheating’, you’d be incorrect. Very incorrect.
As I understand it, The Church knows that divorce, while remaining a grave evil objectively, may be necessary in order to protect a spouse and/or children. But you don’t ‘get to’ divorce a spouse who cheats as a matter of course. IF the cheating behavior is dangerous to you or you simply cannot regain trust, the Church would permit you to separate, and even to divorce if you must do so to support yourself and your children, but you would still need to seek a decree of nullity in order to remarry.
A better way to phrase might be, "If your spouse cheats on you, and it is necessary for you and/or your children’s safety-physical, emotional, etc–to divorce, you may do so, but you may not remarry. If you believe that the spouse’s cheating was due to a condition that he had BEFORE your marriage, and which if you had known about, would have caused you NOT to marry him, you may seek a decree of nullity. IF it is shown that your spouse was not capable of entering into marriage due to that or other factors at the time of your marriage, you may receive a decree of nullity and then be free to marry again.
As I understand it, The Church knows that divorce, while remaining a grave evil objectively, may be necessary in order to protect a spouse and/or children. But you don’t ‘get to’ divorce a spouse who cheats as a matter of course. IF the cheating behavior is dangerous to you or you simply cannot regain trust, the Church would permit you to separate, and even to divorce if you must do so to support yourself and your children, but you would still need to seek a decree of nullity in order to remarry.
A better way to phrase might be, "If your spouse cheats on you, and it is necessary for you and/or your children’s safety-physical, emotional, etc–to divorce, you may do so, but you may not remarry. If you believe that the spouse’s cheating was due to a condition that he had BEFORE your marriage, and which if you had known about, would have caused you NOT to marry him, you may seek a decree of nullity. IF it is shown that your spouse was not capable of entering into marriage due to that or other factors at the time of your marriage, you may receive a decree of nullity and then be free to marry again.