Jesus had compassion for adulterers, for fornicators, for all who came to him. There is no evidence that he recommended the social approval of adultery or fornication. Thus, even though he had great compassion for the woman caught in adultery. He advised the crowd ‘let he who is without sin be the first to cast a stone.’ And yet, He did not suggest that adultery henceforth be approved by the Rabbi’s and Teachers as equally normative to marriage.
He also had compassion for the woman at the well in Samaria. Yet he did not advise her that extramarital cohabitation should henceforth be approved as acceptable for all Jews.