To understand what forces are influencing you and your so-called enemy will raise your mind to seek mercy, healing and forgiveness for both of you. I experienced anger from a boy who took advantage of me. I was tempted to get violent with him and I knew God didn’t want me to fight him. Something within me prevented me from getting violent. For many years I relived the scene, over and over. I could still feel the anger. Then one day I somehow (was inspired,I pleaded with God to help me )put myself in his position, and then I realize what he was suffering, and how I triggered in him this same anger I felt. Then the anger subsided in me, and I realize that I had done him wrong. It was true he had done me wrong at first, but I responded with anger. And he reciprocated Passion and ignorance and the devil are our real enemies.