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I sent you a PM.hi elizawhere in jersey are you? i grew up in bergen county.
excellent post – good points.
I sent you a PM.hi elizawhere in jersey are you? i grew up in bergen county.
excellent post – good points.
CAN… but not all parishes run their schools that way… unfortunately…parish tithing also can provide subsidies for tuition at regional schools and high schools, in a sort of voucher system.
As I said when annie was asking about Florida Catholic schools-I was the one who commented on the $15k–which was a rough estimate.
For the poster talking about Tampa Bay–if you exceed a certain income, which my dh and I do, financial assistance is not that forthcoming.
Three Catholic high schools in Tampa Bay area:
Academy of Holy Names-- $13,660 per year/per student–and this is ONLY tuition, not uniforms, and extras…There are discounts for sending more than one child, but my son is the only one in high school, as of now.
Jesuit Academy and Tampa Catholic are up there as well–and again, offer financial assistance if you are eligible.
I researched sending our kids to Catholic school, before our move to Florida–and these were some of the findings. Elem and middle were more feasible, but not remotely close to where we live. We reside 15 miles north of Tampa–and with traffic, etc…it might take 2 hours one way, to transport to one of these schools. It’s definitely more expensive here in Florida for private schools in general–not just Catholic. I have a few friends who send their kids to private ‘Christian’ schools, and wow…the tuition is over $15k in some cases. So, it’s not a Catholic thing here in Florida, it’s a privatization thing.
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100% YADAHow about:
A letter writing campaign to get tuition costs deductable [like college tuition] …
Or vouchers for every school parent to take to the school of their choice …
If catholics would unite and speak in a unified voice [and be joined by some of our other christian brethren [who also send their children to church related schools] and those who support Charter Schools we coulld actually see positive results along these lines …
For those who have posted …
Do your parish schools have an endowment fund that helps to offset tuition costs? Yes we do. If not, have you considered starting one?
What kind of fund raisers do your parishes have? A drawdown raffle with a dinner and auction; and a chocolate and mag sale.
Does your [arch] diocese provide any support? YES. United in Faith Campaign raised the capital for such activity, and there is a local Catholic group that helps fund tuition at the various schools.
Public schools here seem to sponsor as many “fund raisers” as our local parish - they even have endowment funds - so sending your children to public schools does not mean that there are no fundraisers - However, they are [probably] less able to enforce parental participation though. I’ve noticed this. And in our area, the public schools charge a registration fee, and a usage fee, lab fees, etc.
Tithing seems to be a “bad” word in catholic circles, I have not quite figured out why. 1.) Because the word has gained a Protestant notation. 2.) Because for years, Catholics were poor or middle class, and couldn’t afford it. They were told to contribute what they could. 3.) Because it hasn’t been taught properly. Back to that adult education thing again.
Maybe we need to move to WI!I’m on my parish finance committee, and we are probably going up to $2600 next year. Guess that’s still cheap or at least in line with what many of you are paying (also $150 registration and $175 book and materials).
Two kids will be $4520
Three and up will be $5560
For non-members it’ll be (4074/7948/11822 (for 1/2/3+ kids).
Our school runs a deficit of roughly $160K per year which need to be made up by parish subsidy. Unfortunately, with parish contributions going down, I don’t see any solution but tuition going up at a good percentage every year.
Andy
I don’t see how starting with adults with no background is going to work. Sure, I needed and learned a lot of math in college to become an engineer, but I would not have been able to do that without the basics, like adding. So my adding training was irrelevant? And how would I even have known about math when I was 18 to decide to pursue it if I hadn’t been exposed to it?I completely agree with you Paul on this issue. Have you read Steve Kellmeyer’s book on this topic? It’s called Catholic Education in America: Designed to Fail
His main thesis is that Jesus cathecized adults, not children. It’s adults who will pass on the faith to their children. Not vice versa. By focusing on the children through a parish school, the parish loses it’s abilitity to reach out to adults, and the parish schools are an enormous drain on the finances of the parish, especially if the number of children attending the school represents a small minority of the parish population.
Our parochial schools in Northern NJ are struggling. There just isn’t the demand for them that there once was and the public schools are considered very good if not excellent. We also pay extremely high property taxes which make Catholic school not an option for your average middle and upper income family, who will have to pay thousands of dollars in tuition on top of property taxes which fund the public school. People tend to vote with their pocket books.
We are talking emphasis here. Continue Religious Ed for the children.I don’t see how starting with adults with no background is going to work. Sure, I needed and learned a lot of math in college to become an engineer, but I would not have been able to do that without the basics, like adding. So my adding training was irrelevant? And how would I even have known about math when I was 18 to decide to pursue it if I hadn’t been exposed to it?
We’ve actually had entire families convert/revert to Catholicism while their children were at our school. I don’t know why the came, but they weren’t Catholic when they got here, but are Catholic now. I just am not seeing the same thing happen with our REP kids. It is not working at all. We do have some lukewarm families that have children that attend the school, but they seem to have a better record of turning their parents around or at least getting themselves to Mass.We are talking emphasis here. Continue Religious Ed for the children.
Properly catechized adults teach their children the right things, live the right way, are a proper example.
Teaching children about the faith while their parents aren’t living their faith or don’t have an understanding of their faith isn’t very successful, is it?
Well, that is the question. How do you get adults to want to learn more about their faith?I understand you’re trying to say we need to “break the cycle”. But around here, we’ve got 120 kids willing to come to 35+ hours of Catholic (elementary, add some for HS) education a week. We have to beg 300+ to attend about 20 hours of catechism a week. Adult education classes are attended by just a handful. I just don’t see letting down the kids at school to offer “more” to the adults who aren’t coming to what we have now. How would you get them to come?