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Cathy
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Only women can bear children. It should not be too difficult, therefore, to accept that only men can confect the Eucharist. Jesus certainly could have chosen a woman to be one of the twelve. He was not constrained by cultural conventions of the time from selecting women disciples, which he did do. He did not choose women apostles. We can confidently believe he chose only men for a good reason that had nothing to do with cultural taboos.
Men and women need one another, and that is a good thing. We are very different, and it is good for us to learn to get along closely and charitably with people who are very different from ourselves. I think many people who think women should be priests not only misunderstand priesthood, but also misunderstand the very great importance and power of motherhood.
The priest is called to be servant to all, as Jesus explained to his apostles at the Last Supper. In the world in general, it is more common for women to wait on men. However, Jesus turned the world upside down. He called for the men to feed the women (and their fellow men). So it is rather ironic that the so-called “feminists” are clamoring for women to serve men in the Church as well as in the rest of the world.
To me, the saddest thing about the push to have women act as priests is the implication that motherhood is not a great privilege and an exalted position. Both spiritual and physical motherhood are crucially important in every aspect of life. There would be no priests without mothers, and without Catholic priests, there would be no respect for mothers nor for motherhood. We need each other. We are called to love and respect each other. As the Church teaches over and over in many ways, equal dignity does not mean sameness.
As a practical matter alone, it seems a bad idea. A woman friend of mine (PhD in biochemistry) has observed that if it were possible for women to be priests (and it is not possible), the men would disappear even more from roles of service and leadership in the Church, because they would just as soon let the women do the jobs. I am a convert from Methodism. The advent of women clergy was not a boon to vocations nor to membership.
The Catholic Church is the only major Christian Church left which guarantees its members a spiritual father in her parishes. This is especially important in this secular age with so many broken homes. A fatherless family is a tragedy. A fatherless parish would be a multiplied tragedy. But the role of the mother in the family is absolutely crucial. If she is not home to nurture and feed her family, they either cannot survive at all, or they cannot flourish. Similarly, parishes need a mother’s touch, in many, innumerable ways. Motherly women inspire the priest and give him the disinterested love he needs to continue to serve. Creative and energetic women help teach all kinds of classes so important for the education of parish families. They provide stable, safe friendships for those of us who have not had the nurturing we needed in the past, often because our mothers were persuaded that they would be more “fulfilled” by leaving their homes and families and seeking fulfillment in careers and/or extramarital affairs.
My father, a doctor, was so brainwashed by liberal ideas that he taught me as a young teen that there was no difference between men and women except in the bedroom. Believing the lie, I tried to act in a way I thought men acted. How crazy is that? When I finally read Pope John Paul II’s Letter to Women, I was in my 40’s, but I felt genuinely loved and affirmed in my womanhood for the first time in my life. John Paul II gets it! Yes, he was a celibate old man when he wrote it, but he understood me better than I understood myself. I knew that could only be from the Holy Spirit. I decided then and there that I wanted to join the Catholic Church, through which the Holy Spirit affirmed me as a woman.
Praying the Holy Spirit will guide you,
Cathy
Men and women need one another, and that is a good thing. We are very different, and it is good for us to learn to get along closely and charitably with people who are very different from ourselves. I think many people who think women should be priests not only misunderstand priesthood, but also misunderstand the very great importance and power of motherhood.
The priest is called to be servant to all, as Jesus explained to his apostles at the Last Supper. In the world in general, it is more common for women to wait on men. However, Jesus turned the world upside down. He called for the men to feed the women (and their fellow men). So it is rather ironic that the so-called “feminists” are clamoring for women to serve men in the Church as well as in the rest of the world.
To me, the saddest thing about the push to have women act as priests is the implication that motherhood is not a great privilege and an exalted position. Both spiritual and physical motherhood are crucially important in every aspect of life. There would be no priests without mothers, and without Catholic priests, there would be no respect for mothers nor for motherhood. We need each other. We are called to love and respect each other. As the Church teaches over and over in many ways, equal dignity does not mean sameness.
As a practical matter alone, it seems a bad idea. A woman friend of mine (PhD in biochemistry) has observed that if it were possible for women to be priests (and it is not possible), the men would disappear even more from roles of service and leadership in the Church, because they would just as soon let the women do the jobs. I am a convert from Methodism. The advent of women clergy was not a boon to vocations nor to membership.
The Catholic Church is the only major Christian Church left which guarantees its members a spiritual father in her parishes. This is especially important in this secular age with so many broken homes. A fatherless family is a tragedy. A fatherless parish would be a multiplied tragedy. But the role of the mother in the family is absolutely crucial. If she is not home to nurture and feed her family, they either cannot survive at all, or they cannot flourish. Similarly, parishes need a mother’s touch, in many, innumerable ways. Motherly women inspire the priest and give him the disinterested love he needs to continue to serve. Creative and energetic women help teach all kinds of classes so important for the education of parish families. They provide stable, safe friendships for those of us who have not had the nurturing we needed in the past, often because our mothers were persuaded that they would be more “fulfilled” by leaving their homes and families and seeking fulfillment in careers and/or extramarital affairs.
My father, a doctor, was so brainwashed by liberal ideas that he taught me as a young teen that there was no difference between men and women except in the bedroom. Believing the lie, I tried to act in a way I thought men acted. How crazy is that? When I finally read Pope John Paul II’s Letter to Women, I was in my 40’s, but I felt genuinely loved and affirmed in my womanhood for the first time in my life. John Paul II gets it! Yes, he was a celibate old man when he wrote it, but he understood me better than I understood myself. I knew that could only be from the Holy Spirit. I decided then and there that I wanted to join the Catholic Church, through which the Holy Spirit affirmed me as a woman.
Praying the Holy Spirit will guide you,
Cathy