Catholic Sexual Morality

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A human being is born with difficult to define physical features. As a result they are hard to define as a particular gender. Perhaps this is a genetic anomaly, perhaps a result of epigenetic response to environmental factors, perhaps this being is simply the way God made. They are told repeatedly that they need to be “corrected”, that the are the result of Original Sin, because to consider them to be unusual but still made in God’s image would make us all uncomfortable. Does that multi or neithee-sex induvidual have a physical reality to deal with,
Yes they do.
or does our desire change that?
No it does not.

A human being is not subject to someone else’s desires and whims.

What to say about the difficult scenario you present?
I really have no idea. A very difficult situation that would call for understanding and compassion.
 
There are a lot of really thoughtful responses, so I am not going to respond to each individually. But here are a few bits I feel are worth digging into:
  • the idea that sexuality runs deeper than physical appearance is one I quite agree with. There are instances of individuals with intersexed brains. For example, a woman could have a masculinized brain but still have a female body. If he were to marry a man, despite the parts fitting together, it would be essentially a same-sex attraction, but if he was straight he would want to be with a woman. Which desire is disordered? How does the concept of complimentarianism address this? How do we as humans decide how God knows such an individual?
  • On physical pleasure as an indicator of complimentarianism: I hate to be the one to say this, but orgasm feels good, even when achieved in same-sex unions, so I don’t think it is really evidence either way. That heterosexual unions are the only ones with a chance of producing offspring is not open for debate. That, in and of itself, does not fully explain the concept of complimentarianism.
  • I am not trying to say that Adam was literally a neuter. I am trying to imply that one could interpret Genesis in such a way that does not deny or deride the existence of any part of the human family. If all that is female and male could be contained in one individual, if God is reflected in our diversity and if “There is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus.” –(Galatians 3:28)… Then I don’t see the basis for complimentarianism as it is currently employed.
  • I plan to read Theology of the Body, which is hopefully full of citations to whatever it is based on.
 
There are a lot of really thoughtful responses, so I am not going to respond to each individually. But here are a few bits I feel are worth digging into:
  • the idea that sexuality runs deeper than physical appearance is one I quite agree with.
I agree with that as well. Sexuality is an integral part of a whole person. Based on that fact, the physical is an inseparable part of a person. A person is a unity of body and soul. So while it’s true that sexuality is more than the physical realities, it cannot be separated from them. A person’s physical integrity cannot be subject to mere feelings, desires, ideas, etc. That is Gnosticism…the idea that the physical world is inferior and/or irrelevant.
There are instances of individuals with intersexed brains. For example, a woman could have a masculinized brain but still have a female body. If he were to marry a man, despite the parts fitting together, it would be essentially a same-sex attraction, but if he was straight he would want to be with a woman. Which desire is disordered? How does the concept of complimentarianism address this? How do we as humans decide how God knows such an individual?
  • On physical pleasure as an indicator of complimentarianism: I hate to be the one to say this, but orgasm feels good, even when achieved in same-sex unions, so I don’t think it is really evidence either way. That heterosexual unions are the only ones with a chance of producing offspring is not open for debate. That, in and of itself, does not fully explain the concept of complimentarianism.
  • I am not trying to say that Adam was literally a neuter. I am trying to imply that one could interpret Genesis in such a way that does not deny or deride the existence of any part of the human family. If all that is female and male could be contained in one individual, if God is reflected in our diversity and if “There is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female; for all of you are one in Christ Jesus.” –(Galatians 3:28)… Then I don’t see the basis for complimentarianism as it is currently employed.
  • I plan to read Theology of the Body, which is hopefully full of citations to whatever it is based on.
 
A person is a unity of body and soul. So while it’s true that sexuality is more than the physical realities, it cannot be separated from them. A person’s physical integrity cannot be subject to mere feelings, desires, ideas, etc. That is Gnosticism…the idea that the physical world is inferior and/or irrelevant.
So does complimentarianism fail to address individuals who do not physically fit into a binary gender model? I am not trying to argue that the physical nature of such people is either inferior or irrelevant - quite the opposite. I suspect their existence has potentially significant spiritual implications. If complimentarianism is based on observations of the natural world, does it need to be inclusive of all the gender diversity that exists in nature? If not, why not?
 
So does complimentarianism fail to address individuals who do not physically fit into a binary gender model? I am not trying to argue that the physical nature of such people is either inferior or irrelevant - quite the opposite. I suspect their existence has potentially significant spiritual implications. If complimentarianism is based on observations of the natural world, does it need to be inclusive of all the gender diversity that exists in nature? If not, why not?
I’m not sure that there is diversity in gender, beyond male and female, which are diverse. I suppose a scientist (I am not one) would have to look at the unusual cases which you are talking about.
 
So does complimentarianism fail to address individuals who do not physically fit into a binary gender model? I am not trying to argue that the physical nature of such people is either inferior or irrelevant - quite the opposite. I suspect their existence has potentially significant spiritual implications. If complimentarianism is based on observations of the natural world, does it need to be inclusive of all the gender diversity that exists in nature? If not, why not?
What spiritual implications do you see in Down’s syndrome or in Autism? Do you perceive a need to attach a divine intent to these conditions?

What spiritual implications do you perceive might be attached to a person experiencing gender dysphoria?
 
Perhaps I wrote that rather inelegantly. Actually “heteronormative” does NOT refer to same-sex marriage:

As to how would it make the world a better place? I’m not trying to answer that, or ask it. I am trying to determine if the Biblical teachings on gender align with science, and how Catholic teachings address the issue of gender when it falls outside of the assumptive male/female binary, and the implications.
Sorry, C&D. I misunderstood the meaning of “heteronormative”. Thanks for the correction.

As for Bible Teachings and Catholic teachings…keep in mind that Bible teachings reflect Catholic teachings because Christianity had spread to every corner of the known world before the Church complied the Bible. Catholic teaching proceeded the Bible.

As I know understand it, heteronormative refers to a marriage of a man and a women, in other words a normal or traditional marriage. That being the case, the Church’s teaching on a heteronormative marriage is Catholic because it is true, not true because it is Catholic.

This is expressed in the words of the bishop, St. Cyril of Jerusalem:

*** “The Church is called Catholic or universal because . . . it teaches fully and unfailingly all the doctrines which ought to be brought to men’s knowledge, whether concerned with visible or invisible things, with the realities of heaven or the things of earth.”***

In other words, a normal traditional marriage is recognized as proper because it is based on the truth, not just on Catholic teaching.

Yet, saying that makes this conclusion all the more controversial. If it were based simply on Catholic teaching, opponents could say: “You Catholics are entitled to your opinion, but that is not binding on others.”

In reality, truth is the reason that the Church teaches that marriage is a union between one man and one woman. This truth may be offensive to those who deny the existence of truth, who prefer to live in a world dominated by what Pope Benedict XVI termed a “dictatorship of relativism.”

If you acknowledge that truth exists, then we can discuss and even argue about whether or not I, or the Catholic Church, correctly understands the truth of this matter. But if you deny that there is such a thing as truth, that is,** the truth**, not just my truth and your truth, then the matter becomes merely an exercise of raw political power in terms of who has more votes to impose an agenda, and that is what makes it ultimately tyrannical.
 
If you acknowledge that truth exists, then we can discuss and even argue about whether or not I, or the Catholic Church, correctly understands the truth of this matter. But if you deny that there is such a thing as truth, that is,** the truth**, not just my truth and your truth, then the matter becomes merely an exercise of raw political power in terms of who has more votes to impose an agenda, and that is what makes it ultimately tyrannical.
That is so beautifully stated! Yes, I do believe there IS such a thing as Truth with a big T. The part I struggle with is, as you state, whether or not the truth is understood - either by myself, the Church, or lay Catholics. To my knowledge, there is no official teaching on intersex individuals specifically (please correct me if I’m wrong, perhaps I missed something). A lot seems to hinge on the assumption that there are exactly two, wholly distinct, genders. That assumption may not be accurate in light of scientific knowledge, much as the geocentric model. I am wondering how then to understand complimentarianism in light of our current understanding of gender.
 
What spiritual implications do you see in Down’s syndrome or in Autism? Do you perceive a need to attach a divine intent to these conditions?

What spiritual implications do you perceive might be attached to a person experiencing gender dysphoria?
I’m not sure I would equate gender diversity with any of those unique conditions, although I am tempted to compare it with the concept of neurodiversity (the idea “that diverse neurological conditions appear as a result of normal variations in the human genome” - Wikipedia). I do feel a need to see divine intent in pretty much everything, actually. I posit that the assumption that intersex individuals are merely an aberration is hard to prove, both scientifically and scripturally, so I am curious what would happen to complementarianism, and all that stems from it, if it were assumed that gender diversity were part of the design rather than a flaw.
 
I’d be sincerely interested in some education on the proposal of diverse genders.

Starting with what we do know:
Men carry sperm and cannot conceive and carry a child within their bodies.
Women do not carry sperm, they carry an egg, and can conceive and carry a child within their bodies.

From there we have what exactly? Are there people who can do both? Or neither? Or who have a womb for instance, as well as male external organs, or vice versa?

And how does the unique dna of a person express this?
 
I’d be sincerely interested in some education on the proposal of diverse genders.

Starting with what we do know:
Men carry sperm and cannot conceive and carry a child within their bodies.
Women do not carry sperm, they carry an egg, and can conceive and carry a child within their bodies.

From there we have what exactly? Are there people who can do both? Or neither? Or who have a womb for instance, as well as male external organs, or vice versa?

And how does the unique dna of a person express this?
That is a BIG topic! But well worth study. You might start with a simple Google search on the word “intersex” and go from there. Happy reading!
 
That is so beautifully stated! Yes, I do believe there IS such a thing as Truth with a big T. The part I struggle with is, as you state, whether or not the truth is understood - either by myself, the Church, or lay Catholics. To my knowledge, there is no official teaching on intersex individuals specifically (please correct me if I’m wrong, perhaps I missed something). A lot seems to hinge on the assumption that there are exactly two, wholly distinct, genders. That assumption may not be accurate in light of scientific knowledge, much as the geocentric model. I am wondering how then to understand complimentarianism in light of our current understanding of gender.
“Intersex” is the new term for “hermaphroditism”, a group of conditions where there is a discrepancy between the external genitals and the internal genitals. The Church wold consider “intersex” to be a physical deformity and the teaching would be in line with those concerning physically challenged.individuals.
 
That is so beautifully stated! Yes, I do believe there IS such a thing as Truth with a big T. The part I struggle with is, as you state, whether or not the truth is understood - either by myself, the Church, or lay Catholics. To my knowledge, there is no official teaching on intersex individuals specifically (please correct me if I’m wrong, perhaps I missed something). A lot seems to hinge on the assumption that there are exactly two, wholly distinct, genders. That assumption may not be accurate in light of scientific knowledge, much as the geocentric model. I am wondering how then to understand complimentarianism in light of our current understanding of gender.
What is it that you would like a teaching on Intersex to address?
 
The idea of sexual complementarity is not based on a philosophical or theological concept. It is based on the fact that human beings are either man or woman. They have reproductive systems that are sexually complementary. We start with biology.

There may be rare deviations in which sexual identity is indeterminate, but those are just that–deviations, medical problems, like other types of medical or birth defects. No need to make it so complicated.

There are men. There are women. Because they are sexually complementary, there is marriage and family.
 
“Intersex” is the new term for “hermaphroditism”, a group of conditions where there is a discrepancy between the external genitals and the internal genitals. The Church wold consider “intersex” to be a physical deformity and the teaching would be in line with those concerning physically challenged.individuals.
Could you please tell me where the Church identified intersex or hermaphroditism as a physical deformity?

Also, intersex individuals are just one example of gender diversity, but I don’t intend to imply that the examples I’ve put forward are by any means exhaustive.
 
The idea of sexual complementarity is not based on a philosophical or theological concept. It is based on the fact that human beings are either man or woman. They have reproductive systems that are sexually complementary. We start with biology.

There may be rare deviations in which sexual identity is indeterminate, but those are just that–deviations, medical problems, like other types of medical or birth defects. No need to make it so complicated.

There are men. There are women. Because they are sexually complementary, there is marriage and family.
Unfortunately the reality is very very complicated.

To the OP, I hope your decision to join the RCIA does not hinge on opinions expressed here, they are not binding nor are they cut and dry. Lots of Catholics have a very different perspective on this, it does not make them less catholic.

God bless, I do hope you experience the love of our Father. That will give you all your answers.
 
The idea of sexual complementarity is not based on a philosophical or theological concept. It is based on the fact that human beings are either man or woman. They have reproductive systems that are sexually complementary. We start with biology.

There may be rare deviations in which sexual identity is indeterminate, but those are just that–deviations, medical problems, like other types of medical or birth defects. No need to make it so complicated.
If we do indeed start with biology, then to deny or minimize the existence of people who do not fit into the binary gender model doesn’t make sense, and to automatically assume they are “deviations” or “medical problems” is itself problematic. If complementarianism simply does not address this, I feel like this represents a significant interpretive issue. Repeatedly stating that these humans are simply unwell or damaged does not adequatly explain the situation, in my opinion.
 
Unfortunately the reality is very very complicated.

To the OP, I hope your decision to join the RCIA does not hinge on opinions expressed here, they are not binding nor are they cut and dry. Lots of Catholics have a very different perspective on this, it does not make them less catholic.

God bless, I do hope you experience the love of our Father. That will give you all your answers.
I am posting here because I am too excited about learning more to wait for RCIA! I will of course take anything I learn on an Internet forum with a grain of salt, but I can’t imagine anything could be said to dissuade me from trying to follow Christ and join His Church. Thank you for your kind words. I hope my RCIA classes also reflect the complexity of such personal and significant matters.
 
Crow_and_dove #37
Repeatedly stating that these humans are simply unwell or damaged does not adequatly explain the situation, in my opinion.
JimG in #34 has expressed the reality of Catholic teaching accurately and succinctly. Personal “opinions” against the Church’s teaching need to be corrected for reality in truth.
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I hope my RCIA classes also reflect the complexity of such personal and significant matters.
RCIA cannot cover everything adequately as an “initiation” – I hope that you will purchase and appreciate the *Catechism of the Catholic Church *(CCC) which St John Paul II has declared in his Apostolic Constitution Fidei Depositum:
“I declare it to be a sure norm for teaching the faith…a sure and authentic reference text for teaching Catholic doctrine…offered to every individual who asks us to give an account of the hope that is in us (Cf. 1Pet 3:15) and who wants to know what the Catholic Church believes….while carefully preserving the unity of faith and fidelity to Catholic doctrine.”

The CCC #2358:
“The number of men and women who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies is not negligible. This inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial. They must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are called to fulfill God’s will in their lives and, if they are Christians, to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord’s Cross the difficulties they may encounter from their condition.”

Thus equipped, which real Catholic would want to shun the opportunity to correct error, false impressions and denigration of Christ’s’ own Church?

Thus all of the Church’s doctrine including that on pre-marital sex, marriage, contraception and the ordination of women to the priesthood need to be understood and assented to. She cannot teach error.

Best wishes for a holy and satisfying RCIA.
 
What is it that you would like a teaching on Intersex to address?
I would like it to explain how complementarianism makes sense with more than two genders, because I don’t understand how it does but I trust the Church to teach the truth.
 
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