Here is a question of concern. I recently was discussing how I’d be bothered if my girlfriend got tattoos, piercings, dyed her hair. Mainly in the past she has stated she has no problem with getting a lower back tattoo. She would never wear anything revealing it. She is very modest. And she said she wouldn’t obviously show it to anyone. As well she has expressed that she has no problem with getting piercings in her brow, a small bolt in her nose, and dying her hair once or twice a year in vibrant colors. She said she is not trying to look cool, she is not trying to draw attention (she said if she was the last person on earth she would still do it because she thinks its artsy and she herself is an artist), and I guess I feel uncomfortable about all of this but am wondering if I shouldn’t. Is what she saying about doing these things wrong? She knows what connotations things have, but she doesn’t care what other people think, and she feels as long as she is being modest that its okay.
